i have liked this guy for 2 years now, and the other day he started going out with a girl i HATE! i dont want to break them up, i just want a way to tell him i like him, or a way i get over it, because it hit me really hard, and believe it or not its hard to get over. any answers greatly appreciated
2006-08-17 21:28:39 · 4 answers · asked by ezzaphill 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wait until he is single then go after him. Right now I would suggest just being a really good friend. A better friend than his girlfriend. Get my drift...wink wink!
2006-08-17 21:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To move on, you'd just need to find the courage to tell him.
Secondly, you need a magmanimous heart and you'll need to feel happy for him for finding someone that he's happy to be with.
Lastly, you'll need to find the strength to let go and move on.
Love is selfless, and although you feel bad now, stay positive to know that you'd still be friends, and cherish him in the way that you have always done.
Take things naturally, and if destiny allows you to come together one day, then its the best fortune you could ever wish for.
2006-08-18 04:44:12 · answer #2 · answered by winnie_1423 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ezzaphil darling, where were you for those two wasted years!!! Come on now! you should have at least hinted to this guy that you were interested in him rather than treating him as "just a friend" for am sure that's where you went wrong (most women do so)!!! Come on gal! next time, dont waste time being a "lady"!!! go out for the ""*****-lady"in you and show em boys that you have what it takes!!!
Being born in this era where a lady can ask a man out for a drink has its advantages - dont take me wrong but, we women tend to play hide and seek with our emotions and nowadays men tend to like a woman who is kinda sure of what she wants in life rather than one who is unsure of herself! Ask any man out there and they will sure tell/point out such a lady!
As regards ur dilemma, well, just like the lady who answered b4 me, please let it go until he's single again and then you go for him but am preety sure that with your kind of strength, you will have seeing his other side and decided he wasnt worth your while! Hnag in there sista!
2006-08-18 04:59:12 · answer #3 · answered by clueless j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ithink you should tell him how you feel, because you never know he might decide to be with you
2006-08-18 04:35:04 · answer #4 · answered by scarlet pimpernell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋