2006-08-17 21:23:40 · 10 answers · asked by smart_babu_2004 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
you will soon become one if neither of you practice safe sex. You are just 14 years old, and I'm telling you there are a lot more activities that you can engage yourself with aside from sex.
While on puberty, you are normally undergoing huge physical and emotional change your your body is preparing you for womanhood. This means that in the next few years, you will soon be capable of providing another life to a baby. Actually you are already given that power now to procreate.
However, what you need to understand is the fact that this power should not be taken for granted because its repercussions are so devastating if it gets to be done just for the heck of it.
Another thing is, maybe you would like to impose a bit of self - control this early and engage in sex when you feel you are ready to handle situations and responsibilities that will come thereafter.
That way, you will not be sorry for jumping easily into the bandwagon of teeners getting impregnated too early and be sorry the rest of their lives.
2006-08-17 21:33:20 · answer #1 · answered by Mike_Cruiser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes my dear, once you have sex with a boy, you have a chance to becoming pregnant.
If you do get pregnant, you need lots of money to see doctor, to deliver the baby.
Your figure will balloon and you will look FAT.
And to top it off.. once the baby is born, you will have no time to yourself, no personal freedom at all and will not be able to do what you like any time you like.
Okie.. I am kidding.. being pregnant can be a fun thing and a good thing.
But I feel this way because I am 29 and already married. For an unmarried 14 year old, you are likely to face many challenges like those I mention above.
Motherhood is a heavy responsibility and if you are not ready for it, it will be best to take out the possible chance of pregnancy by NOT having sex with your boyfriend. Or if you MUST, at least use a contraception like condom or something.
That being said, all contraceptions are not 100% safe as well.. so there is still a chance.. just a LOWER chance.. so please take good care of yourself! :)
2006-08-18 05:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
about a 15% chance. You have been raped. Even if you wanted to do it. Even if you said yes or encouraged the guy. Even if you did everything. You should go immediately to your family doctor and tell him/ her. Sex and pregnancy are both very dangerous at your age. and even if its been a few days you can take a pill l- its Will Not be an abortion, it is a pill that keeps you from getting pregnant. and always use a condom - even for oral. You can get aids and then youll be dead before you turn 25.
2006-08-18 04:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by kazak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you most certainly can...I suggest you go to a female doctor, get some advice from her...or go to the health department...it is much cheaper.
I can tell from your question that you know little or nothing about sex education...for example, how to not get pregnant if you are sexually active. At age 14 you are much too young to be a mommy.
Get going & do not be embarrassed to go...Everybody makes mistakes & they can help.
Much love...Nala
2006-08-18 04:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
"signs of pregnancy
Missing your period or having a very light short period.
Tender and swollen breasts.
Having to go to the bathroom a lot.
Changes in mood and appetite.
"Morning Sickness" -- nausea or vomiting for no reason, especially when you first wake up.
Wet spots (discharge) in your underwear.
Signs of pregnancy are different for each woman. You may have none of these signs or all of them. Also, many women get these symptoms when they're about to get their period.
Trust your instincts. If you think you're pregnant, get tested.
http://www.positive.org/JustSayYes/pregnancy.html
http://www.teenwire.com/
http://www.likeitis.org.uk/
2006-08-18 17:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by Sancira 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can. It it very dangerous to your health to have sex without a condom.
14 is too young to be having sex, as well.
If I were you, I would go to a doctor and ask for the "Morning After Pill". You do not need to tell your parents.
And please, don't have sex again for a few years, and only with protection.
2006-08-18 04:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by P-nuts and Hair-dos 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have unprotected sex there's always a chance that you can be pregnant.Also you could have a s.t.d .
Wait to see if you come on you're periods - if you don't then go to the doctors for some help and advice...
If you do come on you're very lucky. If you're going to have sex use protection....be safe x
2006-08-18 04:33:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend,
You most certainly can become pregnant.
And I feel sad because you now have the chance to bring a baby into this world and you are not prepared for that.
I live in real world with real temptations, desires and problems, so I do understand a little how you feel. Nevertheless, what you did is not right.
Please go and seek council from a church or good older friends who might be able to give you good advice.
And whatever happens, please, please, please safe yourself for your husband.
Jesus loves you and God Bless.
2006-08-18 04:36:24 · answer #8 · answered by dinoj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooooo......unbelievable! well smart babu, u should think first b4 do that..em....what i had learned is you will get pregnant.except you used condom or your period has not coming yet..it's ok..but i more prefer if you go to the doctors they will offer you some help and advice. k.goood luck
2006-08-18 05:47:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, IF U HAVE YOUR PERIOD ALREADY. USE PROTECTION, BUY ULTRA THIN CONDOMS
2006-08-18 05:02:25 · answer #10 · answered by einsteinliam2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋