My experience for the time being, am confused. I thought that there could be only one soul mate. But I have two!! Is that bad?
2006-08-17 21:14:53 · 12 answers · asked by Casper 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Loving two people at the same time? Yes, I had. Confusing. It gave me a lot of headache. =) Two soulmates? That's hard. I think you must think this through. You may love them both but I think only one of them is your soulmate.
Go for the one who can be your friend too. Friendship is a good foundation of a stronger relationship.
2006-08-17 21:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by jen_good girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may love one for something you don't see in the other but your love is still greater for one than the other...if you were already in a relationship you should not have been open to another person...maybe there was something missing you found in the new person...or maybe you are just confused and not know what you want...i think you should take a break from both and analyze the situation....who is better for and will keep you in the right direction....also don't confuse lust with love but like i said need to make a choice now before it gets out of control
2006-08-18 04:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by aisha f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes is is possible and happens all the time. Here is how it goes: a person has so many natural needs to feel complete, satisfied or contempt in life. For example, someone faithfull, funny, romantic, inteligent, good companion, good in bed, adventurous, etc...
It is very rare that any one person can be all of the above as a partner to another person.One person might be able to be 3-4 of the above to their partner.To feel happy/contempt with your life, you will then need to find someone who can give you the missing ingridients which the first person can not give, so you find those in another person.So we end up falling in love with the first person becuase they are faithfull, funny, romantic and with another person because they are inteligent, a good companion, good in bed, adventurous, etc...Then we have it ALL. :o)
2006-08-18 04:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by Mark n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are wrong.
You can fall in love several times in a lifetime. If you think you love 2 people... you will figure out, sooner or later, that at least one is not for you!
2006-08-18 04:19:59 · answer #4 · answered by jake cigar™ is retired 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. I wasn't in love with both of them though I thought so at the time.
2006-08-18 04:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by double v 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's a love but not a true love...you cannot both serve two master at the same time.
2006-08-18 04:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by jane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nop! Its perfectly normal , offcourse its not normal go to a Psychiatrist or a Therapist and don't tell me that one of them is a boy.
2006-08-18 04:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by Ðøwñ tø Ëã®th 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have, and for a quite long period of time, i lost contact with both of them, and it s funny how i remember them as if it woldn t hapeen at the same time
2006-08-18 04:34:05 · answer #8 · answered by vincent vega 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's possible.. but that's when you have to weigh the positives against the negatives and go with the one you think will be the best or most rewarding.
2006-08-18 04:20:09 · answer #9 · answered by LokoLobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"soulmates" are for fairytales. Like Santa, they are told to you so you will grow up happy. Who's the best in the sack and you will find your answer.
2006-08-18 04:19:11 · answer #10 · answered by Matt Beezy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋