I have to choose between two girls, one is Michelle, a long lost love, from when we were 15, she just recently contacted me and wants to start dating, the other Jen, is someone I met just recently and she is great but has a little more problems she is dealing with. But I think Jen and I would have more fun sexually, because she is more open like me, Michelle would make a better friend and is better off financially, they are both good looking, and no I can't do them both, neither would go for that, and I couldn't handel two...I have to pick soon, because they are both wanting to become sexually active soon, they know about each other, but not to the extint that it now has become...I have to pick, help.....and why would you choose that one....
2006-08-17 21:13:52 · 25 answers · asked by wizzard 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say go with your heart.. pick the one you think you would be happier with most.. you want some one you can trust and talk to about anything.. someone you know who will always be there for you. remember honesty communication and trust are the 3 main parts of a relationship.. so pick the one you think you would have these qualities with most.. good - luck hope this helps Katie*
2006-08-17 21:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by ♥OnCloudNine9♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going with Jen you said it> more open like you. That means there is more than just sex involved, She's great well obvious you care for Jen more that just for sex, so what is your problem again? next the problems that Jen has can the two of you find solutions together? How much do you care for Jen? Now Michelle, you said , she was a long lost love well ? Friend and better off financially hmmm?Do you want to be in a relationship of convenience and not happiness. yes dear, yes dear, signed born2damromantic
2006-08-18 00:36:39 · answer #2 · answered by born 2 d-mn romantic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Michelle is a long LOST love - why was she lost in the first place? What has changed that you think you two could develop a relationship now?
You THINK you could have more fun sexually with Jen but you don't know that for sure. You also don't know what kind of relationship if any would develop with her.
If you are looking for a total relationship Michelle sounds like the way to go.
If you are looking for possible sexual gratification that may become an a complete relationship then go with Jen.
2006-08-17 21:28:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is that, if you have not kept in touch with Michelle, the long lost love, that whatever you had together back then at such a young age is something you've outgrown. You don't mention what your age was back then or how old you are today, so that's a hard one to factor on. In my opinion, I would think Jen would be the better pick. And just what is so bad about seeing each for a platonic date, this way, you get a better feel (no pun intended) for who would suit you best.
In the end, only you can choose, since it is you who knows them both.
2006-08-17 21:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by Evil Wordmonger, LTD LOL 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're looking more for friendship than a wild ride, then pick Michelle, but if you want a wild ride, go with Jen. Least, that's what it sounds like to me. Just depends on what you're looking for. If you want friendship, Michelle, sexual fun, Jen.
2006-08-17 21:21:48 · answer #5 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u looking for sex or love? Sounds like you would be more secure with Michelle. But if your looking for better sex, Jen. If I were you I'd pick Michelle, you've known her longer and you said yourself ' long lost love'! Good luck
2006-08-17 21:19:05 · answer #6 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for Jen, your young and nothing serious will most likely come from it so learn some while your having some wild fun at it, Michelle might be better for you down the line when your older and looking for someone more stable.
-NmD!
2006-08-17 21:18:58 · answer #7 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stick with Michelle like you said Jen has problems
2006-08-17 21:20:40 · answer #8 · answered by nybx28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm i have done that befor....but ummm i think you should go for........michelle because you dont know how much she has changed....she could be the right one for you...you know what i mean.....didnt you have fun with her when you was young!? think about all the good times you had with that girl...you just met the other one just recently.....she has problems as you say...i wouldnt want to have to deal with that so i would go with michelle
2006-08-17 21:21:07 · answer #9 · answered by mixed_wolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go with Michelle as she is your long lost love. and you know her better then jen.
2006-08-17 21:18:29 · answer #10 · answered by ali a 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋