i met this guy about a four weeks ago and i slept with him in the third week .was i wrong to do this? should i feel bad? can i call hin again? or should i wait for him to talk? what if he never does?
2006-08-17 20:57:59 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey if he never calls, consider it a lesson learned
2006-08-17 21:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by dragonfly 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You did something natural and how can that ever be wrong? It's only in the minds of people that things get classified and categorized as such. How bad do you want to see him again? Let that be the measure for you to either call him back or not. It's not bad if girls would take more initiative in things, after all we are all here to get the things we're after and they don't come running to you obviously.
If I was in his shoes I would at least feel flattered if your voice would make it out of my phone. So give him a call and find out and maybe get what you want that way.
2006-08-17 21:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by groovusy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how was the s e x sounds like you liked it and want more, but if he didn't like it, then maybe he doesn't want any more, no you were not wrong to do it the third week, if you waited longer the same thing may have happened, if you really care about him, then yes call him, tell him yyou want to get together again, cuz you enjoyed his company, see what he says, its better than waiting, he may not give you the answer you want to hear, but its better than waiting.....do you think the s e x was good for him....that makes a differance...
2006-08-17 21:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u r single y would it be wrong to have slept with him? and if u r dating him of course u should call him y would u not ? its just sex if u want more than that then u would need to keep talking to each other lol and if u just wanted sex well then be content that u enjoyed it . no reason to feel bad about fulfilling your needs. so no matter what if it was what u wanted to do at the time and it was done of your on free will then it cannot be wrong enjoy
2006-08-17 21:08:56 · answer #4 · answered by cap 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try to call once or twice, after that you will seem needy. A little tip froma a guy: It is nice to have a girl call you once in a while, but if she calls too much it is a major turn off.
2006-08-17 21:02:09 · answer #5 · answered by CHAD K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you should not have slept with him, sex always wrecks a friendship, and can cause other problems. If he doesn't call you back, its because he got what he came for(no punn intended) And this guy should not be called back at all. If he would like to see you again, he will call. If not, Don't make the same mistake twice.
2006-08-17 21:03:48 · answer #6 · answered by Cosmo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey if he hasent called u since a week then may b he wanted to lay u and was successfull in it.
And for that reason u can come and talk to me dear
2006-08-18 01:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by boom9849 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
three weeks , will that is kinda quick but if it felt right dont feel bad about it , i would never call someon but thats just me i figure if they want to see me thay will call, but hey your you and it might feel right for you to call so do whatever makes you happy everyones different and no two people are the same.
2006-08-17 21:01:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't called back by now, it's his loss. I wouldn't feel bad. If it was good, just chalk it up to a good life experience and move on. Go get someone else. It's his loss.
2006-08-17 21:02:04 · answer #9 · answered by Matt Beezy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it was wrong. But you must be feeling weird about it for some reason.
Call him if you want to but don't turn into a stalker. If you wait and he never calls, then... that's that I guess.
2006-08-17 21:01:35 · answer #10 · answered by Kitia_98 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you did wrong, I mean - not if you enjoyed it.
I think you may call him, in a week or two, but if he hasn't called you by that time, don't count on much.
I keep my fingers crossed for you, that he should call.
2006-08-17 21:01:23 · answer #11 · answered by AlphaOne_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋