Today, I got an message from a guy that I don't want to form any kind of relationship with. He is just not my type. I've told him twice already. He asked me what I what I've been doing since I graduated, but he's done things like this before, asking me small questions. I answer to be nice, but then he tries to hook up with me. Should I answer again for the third time? What to say? I'm not a mean person, but I'm tired of this. You would think "no" twice is enough.
2006-08-17 20:57:16 · 6 answers · asked by i_luv_the_irish23 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I told him in January, I am not interested. He said he knew that and moved on. If he's moved, why is he bothering me again?
2006-08-17 21:06:08 · update #1
if you don't want this guy you have to end all communication. If he hassles you or becomes aggressive then you need to take a different route.... go to the cops. The easiest way for you to get over somebody or they to get over you is immediate complete break. Dragging it out only makes it more difficult.
2006-08-17 23:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First try not answering but unfortunetly I've tried this and they always keep calling. So if he doesn't get the "I'm ignoring you" hint your going to have to be straight up with him and say, you kknow, I am not trying to be mean but your Fucn annoying! JK Just tell him you are not interested in him and its time for him to move on. Sometimes you have to be firm and to the point. He'll get over it!
2006-08-17 21:03:11 · answer #2 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's so much you can take you got to tell the man you don't want to be bother. It doesn't matter how nice you are don't be afraid to say no.
2006-08-17 21:03:21 · answer #3 · answered by Pimpin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him once more that your fed up with him asking you and that he's pissing you off, he's obviously not getting it so tell him like it is. If he still keeps annoying you then change your number.
2006-08-17 21:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by EvieEvans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore and block his messages. you have a right to not want to have contact with him. he'll learn
2006-08-17 21:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by dragonfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not being mean by ignoring him. Don't respond to his questions and he will go away.
2006-08-17 21:02:36 · answer #6 · answered by mrharderson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋