What would u do if your best friends boyfriend hit on you or even your sister or cousins boyfriend.Clearly you are not intrested and say no but should you tell her what her boyfriend was up to while she was away?She could take it the wrong way and think you want her man and that could mean the end of your frienship.Or should u live with the guilt of not telling her knowing that he is such a dog and probably will do it again with another girl?
2006-08-17 20:45:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should tell her. It is better that she finds out that this guy is a dog now, rather than let the relationship escalate to the point of where she is considering marrying the guy. If she takes it the wrong way then that is on her. You have an obligation to this person to tell her the truth. Believe me, she will thank you in the long run. Do the right thing. Tell your friend. Peace and God bless.
2006-08-17 20:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It wouldn't be logical to tell her that he's hitting on you if you were interested in him, it'd make sense to HIDE it if you wanted him.
But women can be irrational so I can see your point.
This is a damned if you do damned if you don't situation. If she finds out that he's a pig, and you knew, and you didn't tell her, she'll hate you for that too. So I'd go for the disclosure and warn her. At least you were honest, and if she can't realize than, then it's her loss.
2006-08-18 03:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT IS BEST TO TELL HER EVEN IF THAT MEANS LOSIN HER.
At 1st she will think that u want him but 4rom then on she will keep an eye on him 4 sure!!! And it won't be too long before she finds out!! U SEE THE TRUTH ALWAYS PREVAILS!!!
Then i guess u will be back together friends but now u will be even closer!
2006-08-18 03:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by maria32greece 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the level of your friendship. If she trusts you and treats you as a real friend, you can tell her. But if you are having some second thoughts, keep it, she may not appreciate the thought, instead she may think of you flirting with her guy.
But if the guy flirts with you again, just tell him your bestfriend already told you his size, and you are not interested. =)
2006-08-18 03:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by jen_good girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You decide my friend. If you feel that he is a brat tell her if not don't say anything. But I won't. She will realise by herself after some time. If she doesn't then fair enough!! Would you like someone to come and tell you that?
2006-08-18 03:51:56 · answer #5 · answered by Casper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard one... try having a word with him and if that doesn't work ask around and see if he's hit on anyone else... if you all speak to your friend with the same story then she should believe you
2006-08-18 03:52:07 · answer #6 · answered by dosey-rosey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be a coward. tell your friend/sister/cousin what a dog their bfs are. don't worry about a friendship being broken, because if they are really your friends, they would believe you and stick with you ...if she takes it the wrong way, girl, good riddance, who needs a friend who doesn't trust you, right?
2006-08-18 03:55:10 · answer #7 · answered by shekinahjireh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignorance is bliss. Will you get a prize for being the first to tell? If it was violent or lewd, my opinion would change. Otherwise, just "let it lay louie".
2006-08-18 03:53:12 · answer #8 · answered by flybird1988 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the worse thing that could happen is her finding out from someone else. Then she wouldn't be able to trust you. I think she'll really appreciate it.
2006-08-18 03:51:40 · answer #9 · answered by MarQuita C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, take the risk and let her know, anyways, she'll no it sooner or later ..Why prolong the agony of being fooled.. If you were in her situation, I know you need and wanted to know too...
2006-08-18 04:04:09 · answer #10 · answered by Creine_Athena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋