i have a sister in law that happens to be beautiful, works at a clothing store so has the best clothes and the best taste. but when i am around her i feel less than her because of it, what do you think can be done about this. Ps she can be a real b**ch when she wants to be and that is one thing i am glad im not.
2006-08-17 20:36:19 · 17 answers · asked by carleyrae83 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think you need to find something about yourself that you really like and try to be proud of that.
Everyone is beautiful in their own way. Everyone has abilities.
That fact that she's nasty means her beauty is only on the surface.
2006-08-17 20:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by Kitia_98 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a sister who is the same way. She knows how to dress for every occasion, an she owns only the best designer clothes, an is great looking. Whenever I am out with her, I feel sort of negleted because all the attention is on her.
You need to realize that you can be beautiful to, it's all in your mind. If you want some tips from your sis about clothing or something, don't be shy, an ask her. I have a great taste in style thanks to my sister, an she really actually taught me some things. My sis is like 29 now, so now shes kind of older. But I'm glad, cuz now when I got out with her, I usually attract more attention, than her old ancient self. lol. Good Luck!
2006-08-18 03:43:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find nothing to be a bigger turn off than a beautiful woman who has an ugly personality. No need to feel less than her, sounds like you are already several steps ahead of her. Clothes don't make the person, your heart does. Besides, beauty fades with age. I would much rather be with a woman who is a plain jane, but has a wonderful personality than with some goody two shoes beauty queen with a crappy attitude. Think about it, would you rather date a normal guy who is good to you and makes you laugh and feel good, or a hunk that is a jerk and treats you like trash? The fact that you are glad not to be a b**ch says a lot. Take pride in that, it makes you a better person.
2006-08-22 03:25:13 · answer #3 · answered by William E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are all beautiful in our own way remember that.
You need to like your self more and i bet there is somethink that you have that she wished she had ever thought of that?
You need to sit down and write alist of the good and bad things about you and turn the bad things into good things.
Also your sister in law may be beautiful but she is mean in side
so just shows you are better then her.
Work on your self and be happy of who you are and don't be down on your self too.
I wish you luck hun :)
2006-08-18 03:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by Foxy lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clothes and beauty don't make the person. A good heart, brain and attitude make a real person. Just be good to yourself and those around you and you will be more worthy than any one else.
2006-08-18 03:41:51 · answer #5 · answered by shell7024 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It matters not what others think, only yourself. Be optimistic you are the most beautiful girl on earth, perfect in every way, be happy all of the time because of this, but do not belittle others because of it.
2006-08-18 03:43:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when your brother gets tired of her bitchiness and decides that her beauty isn't worth the grief, she won't be your sister-in-law anymore. She may look good but you have more than she ever will.
2006-08-18 03:45:29 · answer #7 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wasting your own valuable time and energy focusing on something as petty as how someone dresses or looks. I'm sure you have tons of other things you could be worrying about that really need it.
2006-08-18 03:50:37 · answer #8 · answered by Aleaha S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try to accept the fact that she will around/involve in your life for quite a long time to come. Just try to get along but not let het get into you that is for sure.
2006-08-18 03:43:55 · answer #9 · answered by maggotier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about it..........you're not less than her because of what you wear.....and if she purposely makes you feel that way....then she IS a B***h...........if you're worried about people liking you....stop it.......if people don't like you for being yourself......then you shouldn't want them to like you.....screw the clothes she wears......screw her looks......that's her.....focus on you......wear what you like....act how you like and know that the only people who are inferior are the ones who believe they are in their own minds.......have a nice day.
2006-08-18 03:45:50 · answer #10 · answered by mechanical_moose1981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋