I have strong feelings for a girl called amy who lives just across the road. We study at the same high school and school is nearly finished here...I'm thinking about telling her how I think about her every night, how all the love songs remind me of her and her smile and how I wanted to protect her and be there when she was ill and away from school for months.
I've never felt like this before. I already thought she was special the first day I met her. She always occupies my mind and I can hardly focus on my work anymore. It's getting worse! I tried to pray to remove her from my head but on second thought I wanted to keep her in my mind forever.
She is the first girl I've ever really loved.
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2006-08-17 20:26:43 · 12 answers · asked by Wingerwithwings 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all praying doesn't work.
second all that mushy love stuff is great, but save it. if you come off so strong she'll be overwhelmed, maybe think you're creepy like a stalker. start my telling her you like her or something, or you want to take her on a date. once you get into an actual relationship, you should tell her those things, I think it'll knock her off her feet. whatever you do though, you need to tell her your feelings, they won't go away on their own. good luck!
2006-08-17 20:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by mwells0629 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is You have to love yourself first before you can love anybody. You are still young there will be plenty of young Ladies that you will have interests in, So you should focus on School getting your grade together thinking about college, your future Not saying that you 2 can't be friends with her, But you have future to think about! You can always be with her hang out but love is strong word people get hurt all the time by that word. Just Remember The Greatest Love Was Jesus Christ he died for our Sins
2006-08-18 03:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by tay_2_sweet04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be man enough to know what u want,and if u truely have special feelings for her then u ve got to stand up and show that u are a man by telling her the truth and be ready for the outcomes which obviously are gonna affect both of you either positively or negatively.So taking the courage will really help ease your mind.
2006-08-18 03:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by Mo-kayz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down Cowboy!!! Are your hormones in overdrive? You will scare her off if you go to her with that unless you already know her well. You kind of sound like a stalker dude! But yea... Go ask her out and get to know her.. She might or might not be the person you think you see and she will be able to tell soon enough by your attentions that you think she is special. And get busy in school or an afternoon activity to diversify yourself so you aren't boring!!!
Good Luck!
2006-08-18 03:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by goneblonde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go a little slower my friend. Just get over there and talk to her about everyday things. Start a conversation. Find out what she is in to and attempt to find some common ground first. Dont go to fast if you want to capture her heart. The things you are talking about will scare her to death if you throw all that heart at her right now. The possiblity is there to get her heart but, it is like fishing. Be patient and take your time. Anything worth having takes a little time.
2006-08-18 03:35:48 · answer #5 · answered by clark_lt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be frank with her and tell her your feelings, if you find a positive answer the problem is solved if not grieve not , be strong and to find a substitute and move forward. Remember most of the people passed this experience ..
2006-08-18 03:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by Nilehawk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Stop wasting your time praying.
2. She isn't a mind reader bucko... hike your hiney across the road and tell HER you like her. If you could tell all of us, you should be able to tell her.
2006-08-18 03:32:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell Amy how you feel about her. She will never know your true feelings, unless you just talk to her. You don't want to miss your chance, so do it ASAP! Good Luck!
2006-08-18 03:31:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell her like you just put it here. If you are both Christians. Then sit down and pray together about it. Let god answer your questions.
2006-08-18 03:33:04 · answer #9 · answered by lovely soul with insite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely give it a shot before its too late. if you really do like her that much you should like start talking to her and tell her how you feel.
2006-08-18 03:32:37 · answer #10 · answered by lilbabigurlb123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋