If a woman any woman offers to give oral pleasure to a man he would drop his pants in a split second. Why don't women act the same way. I love to pleasure a woman orally, how come they just don't say sure you can go down on me? Let me know your opion on this.
2006-08-17 20:09:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I kind of meant like if you meet a man at a bar or a dance and he says lets go to the bathroom and I will go down on you. A man would jump at the chance.
2006-08-17 20:20:39 · update #1
Women are trained from the time they are small to be demure. We are criticized if we are too easy, naughty, loose, sluts, whores, you name it. On top of that "You s**k!" is a bad thing. All of these odd things combine to affect the way women are "allowed" to be by society. Many women want to be compelled by a man, because then they can feel like they are not a bad girl, they were helpless to resist.
Peace!
2006-08-17 20:22:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I saw a show a while ago about...
Anyway, it said that men want quantity, while women want quality. The reason why a man would jump on the chance (although not all men would) is because they are programmed to procreate. Women on the other hand, find the act very personal, so (usually), emotions and feelings have to be present in the act for it to have a high quality.
2006-08-18 07:41:51 · answer #2 · answered by mommy_mommy_crappypants 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women have secretions and odors that men (that is clean men) don't have. It makes them very self-conscious. Also, not every man is good at it, and a woman's anatomy is sensitive in different ways. Just as a man enjoys pressure changes a woman does as well, but not all men understand this. If your lover feels loved in an emotional way it will lead to trust in sexual matters. Trust is a big factor in sex for women.
2006-08-18 03:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by curiousfurious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might as well ask why women don't offer a BJ to some guy in a bar. We just are not rabid about sex as much as men.
2006-08-18 04:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by barbara 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing against men, but for most women, its more emotional, then just doing it. We need a little time, before we may feel comfortable about it or whatever.
2006-08-18 04:42:52 · answer #5 · answered by softball002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...a man who wouldn't mind getting AIDS or herpes! Why would you even THINK about having unprotected sex (even oral) with someone you just met at a bar, and don't know?? OMG.
To answer your question, maybe it's because women smell and men don't, so they're more self-conscious. idk
2006-08-18 11:23:47 · answer #6 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
from a man...many women are self-conscious about that area and about your face being there
2006-08-18 03:15:11 · answer #7 · answered by Intelligent Donkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women don't like it
2006-08-18 03:14:50 · answer #8 · answered by katlvr125 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you do it on women you just meet on the street?
course they won't
LMAO
2006-08-18 03:16:25 · answer #9 · answered by sedatedeyes209 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we have to gradually get in the mood
2006-08-18 04:05:34 · answer #10 · answered by *justaboyluver* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋