i slept with my co workers girlfriend. he told me she worked at a bowling alley so i went to hang out one night thinking hed b there. he wasnt and it just kinda happened. whoops. i want to tell him. but he is a big guy. not the sharpest knife in the drawer though. what do u think
2006-08-17 20:08:55 · 33 answers · asked by niteshipper 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sure tel him! a worthles piece of shi* like u getting disfigured wont bother any1
2006-08-17 20:24:24 · answer #1 · answered by bunbury 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you're not the sharpest knife in the drawer either, but at least he can keep his dick in his pants.
He's gonna kick your *** nine ways of sunday. I'd get the aspirin ready!
2006-08-17 20:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should tell him. Tell him the truth and convince the girlfriend(his)to go with you.If he doesn't believe you then have her back you up that it was just like one of those high-school mistakes.
Should work and good luck.I hope you make the right decision.
Aly
2006-08-17 20:14:47 · answer #3 · answered by aly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll get what you deserve, when everything comes to light in time. But don't tell him unless you want to get beat up sooner than later, maybe wait a while until you have a getaway plan.
2006-08-17 20:15:09 · answer #4 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is going to weigh on your mind then you need to come clean. If it doesn't make a difference then you shouldn't say anything. It all depends on if you feel guilty about it. If not then let it go. Hope it was good!
2006-08-17 20:14:12 · answer #5 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you tell him if she made a move on you and you refused. Sort of a friendly warning that she's trouble.
But since you already screwed her, it's probably best to keep your mouth shut. but even then, that won't save you from the hell you'll get if she spills it to him first.
2006-08-17 20:13:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not your place. He's just a 'coworker', not a friend- there's no implied loyalty. The only relationship that you have/had is with the girl. You didn't cheat on him, she did. Leave it on her shoulders whether he should know or not. Good Luck!
2006-08-17 20:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by wupierto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dont you think she she should tell him?? She was the one who cheated on him not you..So dont bother telling him. Just stay away from her..Pretty soon, she will cheat on him again and he will have to find it out from the other guy.
2006-08-17 20:13:00 · answer #8 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
crap...i'm so glad i'm not you at the moment. i always say honesty is best....but sometimes honesty is the only option...ok think of it this way...how many people know...well at least 2...now...do you think his gf will tell him?? odds are he's going to find out anyway...would you rather he hear it from you and you can 'duck' 'run' or what ever...or... would you prefer he hear it from someone else and get sprung from behind from this guy?? your call...and for crying out loud...don't do it again...learn from it....tututut...(shaking head right now young man!!!!)
2006-08-17 20:36:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you did is still wrong. even in a situation like this, size, strength, power, all of that should be set aside. if you really like this girl you should tell him how you feel about her. if this is merely a one night stand, its up to you
2006-08-17 20:19:27 · answer #10 · answered by bun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋