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i asked the same question but not enough details added in the previous q, so we have this eye contact bussiness, our eyes lock when we walk across the hallway or anywhere, once he taught my tutorial group, he did nt mak eye contac then, he did not even ask me any question,i have never smiled at him but only looked into his eyes when he looks at me ,until we walk shoulder to shoulder. it does not matter if my friends are around, he will walk towards me and look at me.once i refused to, and he shook his head few times.he said hi to my friend loudly when i did tht.i go to the library everyday in order to see him but he did nt even try to come and find me there.i know he is a doc but if i am willing to come all the way to the library in order to see only once, cant he at least spend 5 minutes there for me.he tried talking to a friend of mine, just hi and bye.once ,i caught him looking at me but he looked away, he was on the phone on tht moment. i m an ordinary looking,he is handsome...

2006-08-17 20:02:54 · 7 answers · asked by M 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!

2006-08-18 16:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 3 0

Believe it or not, you'll learn that many guys will go on personality. Maybe he finds you mysterious and wants to find out more. Try and dare to make eye contact with him, smile (it costs nothing and is an awesome ego booster!) and a simple "Hi! How's things' been?" are a great start!
Good luck!

2006-08-17 20:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i wouldnt take a mans looks to heart.. the looks away are usually a cause of shyness.. what u need to do is talk to him.. he shouldnt be uncomfortable if u genuienly walk up and say hello.. small talk with him if u like him.. dont worry so much about the small things such as eye contact.. if u like him go for it!

good luck

2006-08-17 20:09:39 · answer #3 · answered by Juggernaut 2 · 0 0

Try and pay no attention to him when u 2 meet. If he's really interested in u, that should make him to the first move. If he's not interested in u, at least u wan't embarass yourself by talking to him. I really do belive that if u guy is interested in u, he'll do something.
Best of luck with your guy.

2006-08-18 04:15:57 · answer #4 · answered by essexgirl 2 · 0 0

Maybe you should try to be more friendlier next time..like smile at him atleast? I think he likes you but he thinks the feeling is not mutual. The next time he does that, maybe you should look him in the eye and smile too okay?? Let us know what happens next

2006-08-17 20:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0 0

I would leave this situation alone. What you said does not mean he likes you or is playing you.Sounds to me it is just in your mind.Move on and find someone who who is truly interested in you also.

2006-08-17 20:10:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

stop playing hide and go seek and say something ask him out for tea/coffee/juice, this can be casual as friends and take it from there,.................... people aren't mind readers, trust me on this !

2006-08-17 20:13:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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