My girlfriend and I broke up recently. We dated for over a year and a half. We both want to get back together, but moreso me than her. She says she wants to get back together but it will take sometime. I am cool with taking a break but I cant wait forever! It is getting to the point where I almost want to get over her. But she tells how she loves me and how she wants to marry me EVERYDAY and it makes me want to try and work things out with her. But there are other times when she says I am annoying and to leave her alone. I feel like if I dated someone else then I could get over her. But really don't think I could meet someone that would fill the hole she left in my heart. But I know a few girls that I could have sex with. Would sex numb this pain? I've only had sex with my ex-girlfriend so I wouldn't know if having casual sex with someone else would help me or hurt me...
2006-08-17 19:35:28 · 10 answers · asked by ks_stud_2005 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, well, the casual sex is just going to make you feel crappy about yourself probably. If this chick is so in love with you and planning on marrying you, WHY is she put you on hold right now? She's probably just playing make believe and has no real intention of making things permanent with you. Figure out WHY she is doing this, and then put her on the spot, otherwise she will continue to watse your time and affections.
2006-08-17 19:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonyman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this will hurt but really... She is best dealin out there... Keeping you on a string while she checks out other options. Totally disrespectful unless you are cool with it . But really really really if you want to turn her back towards you you gotta turn and walk away and make sure she knows you are moving on to find someone who can appreciate and respect the level of commitment you are seeking. NOOOO don't go out there sleeping around cause that just makes you look like you were just horny but if you don't jump the next one who rounds the corner it will tell all that you were serious about something with substance and that will either get her attention and she will do right or it will make her look the fool .
best wishes on this and get out there
2006-08-18 04:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by goneblonde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay-
If you two have only been with each other and are planning to get married then the right thing to do is split up and see other people. You need to be with someone else to realize that she is the right one for you otherwise you will spend your entire life wondering "what if?" If it is true love then it will wait, it will wait until you are both ready
2006-08-18 02:43:20 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she's just toying with you... keeping you on a string for her amusement. If I were you I'd seriously think of moving on. I'm sure you can and will do better. I wouldn't suggest sex for the heck of it. You are better off waiting for a loving relationship for that in my opinion.... but then... I'm female. A lot of guys will probably tell you different?
2006-08-18 02:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by Jill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carefull on the sex thing dude... i went through exact same thing homes. Its generally best to leave it to die and move with some else. Start another relationship... who knows maybe the perfect woman is right around the corner.
2006-08-18 02:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by Foxhound 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude!, this is a case of you wanting her more than she does you! why don't you just sit back and wait for her to make the move? If she does, then she really wants you or loves you!!! Don't let her feel you want her that bad!
2006-08-18 02:43:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex wouldn't help, it would only complicate things. Just be straight up and tell her everything you said in this question, and if she is still wishy washy, let her go. I wish you love and happiness
2006-08-18 02:40:30 · answer #7 · answered by mermaidwannabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bury that relationship with a shovel then bury the shovel
2006-08-18 02:44:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHy are you even bothering, if she wanted you back it would be now, to heck with waiting.....
2006-08-18 03:18:24 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes got a new guy
2006-08-18 02:39:37 · answer #10 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋