How do I tell my parents, (who I know will disapprove), that I want to? I am still in school. Should I wait? BTW, we know we will be getting married in the future.
2006-08-17 19:34:38 · 8 answers · asked by ashley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'd wait, at least until you're done with school....no sense in rushing something like this, in fact, it usually falls apart when you rush it...and at the chance of destroying what appears to be a good relationship you need to step back and think about it..and then discuss it, then think about it some more...and as it relates to the parental units....you're 21 they really have no say in what you do anymore, you became responsible for your own actions the day you turned 18 (if in the USA) so this one is entirely up to you...just tread carefully...you could be setting yourself up for disaster and heartbreak.
2006-08-17 19:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by do_sctc145 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. If you want to be on your own get your own place and don't let him move in with you. I am speaking from experience. If you can make it on your own you will be always be able to depend on yourself. Your are very young to be thinking you are going to get married to this person. Why rush it if you know your going to marry him them wait till you get married. I am not trying to be mean but it is best if you don't attach yourself so much to him until you get married. Living together is not all it's made out to be. Be independent from your parents and your man and have your own life. It's very good your in school these things will always help you in YOUR OWN future. cuz you never know what can happen.
2006-08-18 02:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since you are 21, you have rights of your own to move in with your boyfriend if you so choose. If you guys are sure that you are going to be gettin married, then I don't see a reason to rush things. Because he will still be there when you get out of school.
You should also wait if your parents are still supporting you, and you should make sure you guys are going to be able to support yourselves. Good Luck!!
2006-08-18 02:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your already 21..so you can make your own decisions...Maybe you should write down the reasons why you should move in with him or not..then you can use all the advantages, when you talk to your parents....Parents always disapprove because it wasnt done that way during their time...Do whats best for you. In the end, they'll get over it:)
2006-08-18 02:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you thnk they will disapprove? Do you think it might be because they just don't want you to be happy? Do you think that maybe they hate you and want to keep you around to make your life miserable?
There are very good reasons why they will disapprove. Talk to them about it and LISTEN.
2006-08-18 02:41:34 · answer #5 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your parents are still supporting you, you should wait until you are self-supporting. If they are not supporting you, just tell them you are moving in with your boyfriend.
2006-08-18 02:39:18 · answer #6 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's your rush? Wait until you finish school and you are both working.
2006-08-18 02:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait...
2006-08-18 03:34:18 · answer #8 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋