Me and my friend who is also my ex have been good friends or together for almost 2yrs. I had some of the old feelings for her and she did too but it will never happen cuz her parents. Shes had a new b/f for almost 5 months now and we were still best friends over that time. I would txt her every morning to make her feel loved and when i stopped txting her she stopped talking to me. I stopped txting her cuz I felt like I needed to have a break from her to help lose the feling I had which didnt help that much lol. After 2 months of no talking I sent her a msg asking how are things, long time no talk, hows ur summer. She didnt respond to anything and i left it at that. No followup msg. Does she hate me? Is she mad at me? What do i do? Should I explain to her why I stopped talking to her? Would she listen if I tried to tell her? Should I say sry for not txting her?
2006-08-17 19:18:53 · 17 answers · asked by Keyon F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi..first may be she angry to you cause you didn't send her a mail or something, just stop a communication thoughh you wanna forget her or don't want to annoy her new relationship isn't the best way for her or for you. You can ask her why she not reply you, just think that nobody perfects in this world. If she go mad, let's say sorry to her. If she is your good friend thoug she's your ex, I'm sure she will respond you. Take it easy, and do what I said, I have already felt what you feel now, after I do what I say to you, I can made up my relationship.. That's work. NOBODY PERFECT,FRIEND...
Take care and happy choosing,
Dee
2006-08-17 19:43:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I switched cell phones I was getting messages from some young guy who kept asking why whoever it was he was trying to text wasn't answering.
People switch cell numbers and sometimes the person you text isn't even getting your messages.
Give her a call, ask if she's busy or mad. Explain whatever you want to explain and see if she wants to go for pizza or something. Then, too, as someone else already said, there's always moving on if you can't get in touch with her.
2006-08-17 19:27:50 · answer #2 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really loves u she'll talk 2 u. If u want her really in ur life as a best friend then u must explain her d reason of not meeting 2 her. If she understands this then she is really ur gud friend & if don't the just forget her.
2006-08-17 19:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by simi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she didn't question why you quit texting her in the beginning then maybe she thought like you and in an attempt to "get over" any feelings for you and to build a honest loyal relationship with the new boyfriend, she would too avoid rekindling any feelings she may have had for you, and just accept the fact you agreed to let it go. "If you love someone set them free" if the come back " it was meant to be"
2006-08-17 19:29:21 · answer #4 · answered by mamaofthree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is try.. She may be too involved with her new boyfriend to look back which is why I would say move on!!! But who knows, maybe shes a little mad right now but in the end she just might come back to you....Good Luck..
2006-08-17 19:25:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's over you. You went away from her to lose your feelings for her. Maybe she lost her feelings for you, too? Maybe the new bf doesn't approve of her having a relationship with you? You should apologize for not speaking to her for 2 months and basically disappearing from her life. If she wants you back in her life, she'll let you know. If you don't hear from her after you apologize, that's her answer.
2006-08-17 19:24:07 · answer #6 · answered by mytreacheryiseternal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at this stage you cant say sorry... she wouldnt listen..not only that she will not even accept it. She do not hate you..but she's a little mad at you coz she still have feelings for you..Actually theres this thing that you need to know it is very difficult for you to be friend with someone that you have feelings for. I'd jz would like to wish good luck to you.. may her parents be ok one day..
2006-08-17 19:29:07 · answer #7 · answered by Nora A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if shes mad at you. If so ask what you did wrong. Give her a gift or even just a hug and say your sorry if she is mad at you. Maybe she dosn't have the time? Go talk to her, get your relashonship back up and running.
2006-08-17 19:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by Annastasia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that's really tough, i would say do what you need to do to feel better. I would tell her what happened, why you didn't talk to her and whats up, and if she doesn't respond or or is mean about it, then this is your chance to get over her.
2006-08-17 19:29:40 · answer #9 · answered by Swansen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, I am an a**hole. I'm sorry. I must have been temp. crazy to stop talking to you. I don't know what was wrong with me but I'm definitely over it now. PLZ forgive me it will never happen again. And sincerely mean it! Kiss butt!!
2006-08-17 19:23:09 · answer #10 · answered by bookluffer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋