About a month ago I asked this girl out whom I have been friends with for several years. She said that she didn’t want to sate me and that she just wanted to be friends. I had no problem with that so we both decided to remain friends and we vowed that there would be no awkwardness between us. Well to my dismay there was awkwardness between us. She wouldn’t talk to me and every time I tried to talk to her she would answer with one word and sometimes not even answer at all. About two weeks after I asked her out she called me up all excited and happy wanting to know if I wanted to go on a road trip with her and two other friends (the two other friends are boyfriend and girlfriend and I know them well). I was excited because I thought maybe things would be back to normal between us because she sounded really excited when I told her I was going. Boy was I wrong, it couldn’t have been any worse. During the trip she still continued to not talk to me and gave me one word answers and sometime on answer when I tried to start conversation. She also wouldn’t walk next to me when we were walking. Basically she avoided me the whole trip. At this point I had given up any hope I had that things between us would return to normal. After the trip it’s as if she’s a new person. Now when we hang out she makes eye contact with me constantly and touches my arm. She talk to me and ask me questions and answers my questions. It’s weird because now it seems as if she like me. But I have know clue...I think she’s messing with my mind. I know some of you are probably thinking just give up on this girl but I like her to much to do that. All I want is to be her friend with no awkwardness between us and is something more happens then great!!!
So here’s the question....
1) If you could analyze the situation and tell me what you think that would be great.
2)Do you think she likes me?
3) Why was she ignoring me?
4) Why is she flirting with me now?
2006-08-17 19:16:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-08-18 16:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what her reasons are, she's playing games. She knows you are interested, and has turned you down already, so the only way you two can hook up now is if she changes her mind AND makes the move on you. If I were you, I'd get down to being friends and looking somewhere else for a relationship.
2006-08-18 02:44:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonyman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bless you darling, you are being initiated into the complicated world of women. Women do exactly what they want, when they want. Ok, She did like you as a friend - but she did not want to date you.
You asked her out and because she didn't want to hurt you, only to remain friends, she gave you a bs answer. the friends thing is crap...i married my best friend and we have the best relationship ever
she was ignoring you to keep you from asking her out again.
and she wasn't exactly flinrting with you, she was simply making certain that you still like her. and in a way she was comforting you.
2006-08-18 02:23:49 · answer #3 · answered by theprincesskgb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate when chicks do that, i guess it all depends what kind of mood they're in, maybe u should turn the tables on her and play hard-to-get and see if the flirting persists. If so, she may like u, but u shouldnt waste ur time with a girl that will keep u guessing (if u wanted a relationship)
2006-08-18 02:30:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes the feeling of "being wanted"
So when u gave up, she will lure u again till u r hooked.
Very classic example of woman who likes to play hard-to-get.
Dont waste ur time, forget abt her totally and move on with ur life.
Dont even call her anymore, answer her with single word when she called or meet u.
2006-08-18 02:25:28 · answer #5 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happened to make her change all of a sudden? Either she likes you and has changed her mind, or she's just being a friend. ASK HER! Maybe she wants to date you now, and if she says no, at least you won't get hurt...
2006-08-18 02:23:40 · answer #6 · answered by crystalanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
? one. I think she wants you as a comfort crutch, and she will use you anyway she wants and all because she does not know what she wants,or she is just shy or embarrassed to be seen with you. Follow one rule : TREAT HER MEAN AND KEEP HER KEEN. She will want you just cause she cant. and that my friend is jungle justice!!
All the answers you need is in the above statement.
Good luck
2006-08-18 16:59:32 · answer #7 · answered by shreklndn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her. Ask her what she really wants. Explain, like you explained to us what you have observed, and let her know that you don't really understand whats going on, and you want to know if she still just wants to be friends.
2006-08-18 02:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was playing hard to get. yes, she likes you.
2006-08-18 02:21:00 · answer #9 · answered by crazybrunette1991 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people want what they can't have and can't have what they want.
2006-08-18 02:21:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋