Special Someone???

Question

(1.) How will u know when u have met that special someone???
(2.) When u meet a guy for the 1st time will u just know right away???
(3.) Like will u just sense that he is your special someone right away???
(4.)Will u have a feeling for him right away???
(5.) When will u know that he is your special someone???
(6.) For thoses who have met your special someone did u know right away when u 1st met the guy that he was your special someone like u just sense it & have a feeling for him???
(7.) For thoses who have met their special someone when did u know that he was your special someone???

Answer 1

1) it's not instant. I thought i met that special someone and was with him for 6 yrs... then we grew up and changed and we are no longer together.
2) I went online and tried a dating site and met a few different guys. One was hot, gorgeous smile and very nice and i thought he might be the one... we only lastd three dates.. all the sparkle and aww left quickly once i spent more casual time with him. The guy I am with now.. i met him online too... I wasn't hot for him when i met him and it took almost three dates for him to convince me to kiss him. I was going for the just friends thing. now i am planning on moving in with him. He is the best thing that's happened in my life in a long long time. And Now i find him sexier than any celebrity out there. Even the annoying things about him intrigue me and i love them.
3) so i say no to this question
4) i think it grows with time. the ones that start with a bang often seem to fizzle out.
5. You're questions seem to be repeating themselves... :)
6/7 I have yet to find out if he is truely my special someone but he's definitly a keeper for now. He is exactly what i needed in my life right now. If we grow together and keep the same values then maybe..

Answer 2

(1) You won't know, you may think you know a few times until you get it right.
(2) Same as the above
(3) Ditto
(4) uh... yeah... doesn't that happen all the time?
(5) someday you will know, either he is, or he isn't
(6) nope
(7) Well, I'm not married, and don't plan on being for sometime, but the world is full of special people. You're special, I'm special, everyone in his or her own way.

Answer 3

whoa, when you meet somone, the feelings pretty much take care of themselves. You know from the couple of first times you hang out whether there is something there. then its up to you to do the background checks.

Answer 4

I think you feel a special bond quickly but still takes time. Fireworks are just an expression:-)

Answer 5

when u know u want to spend the rest of ur life with that special someone and you want to spend all ur time with that person, he is very special to you, you love him with all ur heart. also, you have given him all ur heart and nothing less.

Answer 6

Jill, once you acquire some life's experiences, you will be able to answer all your own questions.

Answer 7

if your lucky you know but sometimes you don't know , i married a woman that i loved and she loved me , ten years later we worked out we were actually sole mates