Like I stated in the last question, we have been together alittle over a year. Would it be pushing him away if I won't move in with him, and I don't stay the night with him, just because I want a commitment before we shack up together? is that ignorant?...We have sex...so I don't know if thats sending mixed signals??
2006-08-17 19:09:00 · 8 answers · asked by Jamie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Moving in together is a commitment, think of it that way. VERY mixed signals, would personally have me wondering if there was some sort of psychosis behind it. If you're not ready to move in, stick to your guns, but not sleeping over is pretty harsh. I know if I was with a woman who was willing to do the nasty, but wouldn't stay the night I'd be thinking that's pretty sleazy and wondering why she's willing to have sex but not spend any real time together.
2006-08-17 19:16:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonyman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I didn't read your last question and I didn't take the time to look it up, but I think its okay to not spend the night and shack up with your boyfriend. Almost everyone falls into lust with their bf/gf but if you are strong enough to say that's enough, that's ok.
2006-08-18 02:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would seem to be mixed signals to me. You ARE shacking up with him.
2006-08-18 02:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are music to my ears a girl with character...Honey I'd say wait if he loves you he will wait. There is an old saying and i do believe it..........why buy the cow if the milk is free? I don't know your age but sex is nothing with out love for a women.....for a men its different...it more like something fun to do.......kind of like hunting game.
2006-08-18 02:18:50 · answer #4 · answered by butterflyfrills 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you just want to take it slow and moving in is a big step for you. Don't let him try to force you, he should understand. It is however interesting how you sleep with him and not sleep over.
Take it slow.
2006-08-18 02:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by WWJD: What Would Joker Do? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think ur pushing ur bf away all because you don't want to move in with him that is a big step in a couple's relationship and it seems ur trying to think this through before you think you make a mistake and you don't want tp mess up the relationship you have with ur bf.
2006-08-18 02:15:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your more the likly sending mixed msgs,
just explain it to him and let him know you love him etc
2006-08-18 02:15:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
duhhh...
2006-08-18 02:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by princess ysa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋