I slept with my friends ex husband, what do i do. I think she suspects it, do i confess or just play it off
2006-08-17 19:06:17 · 36 answers · asked by tiff 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just play it off. no confession required. you both enjoyed the night its enough for you, no question of morality arises as you didn't have had sex with your friend's husband he was her ex - husband.if you want you can have him again.
2006-08-17 19:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by p g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe begin considering her as an ex friend. Depends on there current relationship and feelings for one another. She may feel betrayed by you as her friend not because it is her ex but because of your lack of loyalty. Perhaps if she suspects such you should be open about it with her at least then she will know that you are at least considering her feelings somewhere in all this.
2006-08-17 19:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do i do I slept with my friends ex husband?
2014-12-16 14:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would she take that as a betrayal? He's not her man any more, she shouldn't care who he has sex with - or who you have sex with.
If you like him and want to hang with him some more, you may have to give up seeing her. So you should bring it up with her instead of waiting for her to learn from somebody else. "I've been dating Tom, and it is getting kind of serious. I hope that you and me can still be friends."
If it was a one-night thing and you're not going to follow up with him, you can report back to her that it wasn't good. "Wow, I can see why you split from Tom. We had sex last week, and it was just awful. He's sloppy and wet, and he kept missing when he tried to put it in me, and he thinks he's the best thing going."
2006-08-17 19:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. And if you are her friend I hate to see what an enemy does to it's enemy. You should be ashamed of yourself. She will never ever be able to trust you. You are a woman with a low self esteem. We did a question about that the other day. You need some therapy and so does he. Disgusting.
2006-08-17 19:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by Tonya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do don't do it again. I find the people who ask questions like this are simply looking for excuses to rationalize their bad behavior. Go to confession or some other moral activity and try to make up for what you did. It's bad. Don't look for justification. And don't do it again.
2006-08-17 19:12:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your choices are as follows:
1. Lie to my best friend.
2. Be honest with my best friend.
Would you really want to be best friends with somebody who was lying to you? Maybe you can work this thing out, but if you keep lying to her then this is not really a friendship worth keeping anyways.
2006-08-17 19:41:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonyman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what your heart tells you..
Live with that decision for 3 days first. If it feels right, do it. If not, then the other decision is the better one..
2006-08-17 19:15:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two are obviously not that good of friends, otherwise you wouldn't have done something like that. Just play it off - if you actually are good friends then you are a sucky one.
2006-08-17 19:11:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confess- take your lumps for doing something that probably was not a best decision.
2006-08-17 19:10:50 · answer #10 · answered by BuffyFromGP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋