In this is too weird . My girlfriend knows I'm a virgin(She not one). I wonted her to be my first. And as soon as I ask her if she wonted to have sex. yes she do.but when I try to come to her house she got scared for some reason. not pick up her phone? making simply excuses like "my phone wasn’t working".or asking stupid question like "what are we gonna do" and I wanna know if she's scared? Shouldn’t I be more scared thin her?(trust me I am scared a little bit) shes 17
2006-08-17 18:25:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She says yes over the phone but...
2006-08-17 18:36:32 · update #1
hey boy how u so sure the girl is not a virgin? Babe respect the girl take tings slow..u sure u ready to deal with the consequences?? plz dont n ure a virgin at 18 thts so gr8!! wish u wud stay tht way till marriage!! She is scared...and u DONT GIVE IN TO TEmPTATION!! hmm where a girl is concern prenancy is the ting on her mind dont hurt the girl!! For u too b a virgin so long i tink tht ure a gud boy make d girl feel safe with u not violated!
2006-08-17 18:39:19 · answer #1 · answered by punkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not weird that you are still a virgin. We have a 19 year old roommate (be 20 in December) that is still a virgin, and he plans on staying that way until he gets married, if he ever does.
I commend anyone who waits to have sex. It should ONLY be with someonee very, very special that is willing to be calm, caring, loving, and understanding and that you know you are going to spend a very long time with. The first time should be special. I know that mine wasn't and I really regret it, just like many people do.
Please don't rush into having sex. It is not something that should be given to just anyone. If you still decide to have sex, then be sure that you both have protection (her the pill and you a condom) as you do NOT want STDS or a baby.
Plus, I think that a 17 year old and 18 year old is NOT able to handle the emotional part of having sex and all the responsibilites that go with it. I personally believe that you should wait until you are at least 21 or you are married, whichever comes first.
Good luck to you!
2006-08-17 18:34:17 · answer #2 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well look sit down with her and get it out in the open i mean she's ur girl and in a relationship there should be good communication so let her know whats going on
2006-08-17 18:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by el nene del amor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she didnt enjoy it. I hope I am wrong about her but if she really didnt like it & she cant appreciate all your good qualities, get over her and save yourself for someone else.
2006-08-17 18:32:04 · answer #4 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becareful of what you are going into..sex become pregancy..family.Are you both ready in such game of free sex?
2006-08-17 18:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by Goosters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd pick someone more experienced than her. It is your first time and you want to remember it
2006-08-17 18:31:46 · answer #6 · answered by devsmash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she s shy. mayb she s nt serious n nt want to take it away frm u since she is juz fooling around
2006-08-17 18:30:14 · answer #7 · answered by he 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and everybody lived happily ever after? rite!!??
2006-08-17 18:30:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her what makes her afraid of is she afraid because of you
2006-08-17 18:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by aisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋