2006-08-17 18:18:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I should add that i have lived with someone before... this is not a new venture for me. My last boyfriend i was with a year and a half before we moved out together and lasted almost 6yrs in total together. So does time together truely matter?
2006-08-17 18:32:11 · update #1
Wait at least a year. A year of dating lets you know that the relationship is stable. If you're renting, you definitely want to be in a very solid relationship because the last thing you want to do is break a lease. I also recommend that if you are renting that you get a 2 bedroom. I found that having my own space really helped keep the fights to a minimum. The shock of the slob that is my now hubby was made bearable by keeping his junk in the other room. I could close the door if he left his crap everywhere, which was often. Good luck to you!
2006-08-17 18:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by mytreacheryiseternal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About 1 year
2006-08-18 16:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by make my liffe better 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it will probably vary from person to person. There are a lot of things to consider, including paying bills together, sharing food, sharing housework, etc.
Living together is not always a breeze, but I think that is true of living with anyone--parents, roommates, siblings, and our significant others. The most important thing to do before you make the decision to live together is to sit down and talk about anything that can (and will) happen after the big move-in.
2006-08-17 18:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is going to be a challenge no matter how you look at it, so in my opinion, the sooner the better. Either you will sink or swim with the relationship. Its always a good idea before getting married, sometimes people are a horror to co-habituate with!!!! It would be rather an abrupt awakening to find out after getting married wouldn't you think?
2006-08-17 18:25:39 · answer #4 · answered by soniaatcalifornia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say that is up to the two of you. When it feels very right for the two of you to be together 24/7. I m oved in with my bf after only a month. I know thats a little faster than most people, but it has worked out well for us. Good luck....
2006-08-17 18:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by collegebusygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are ready to see him/her at their worst, when you are ready to share household responsibilities, when you are ready to have an argument and talk it out b/c you can't just leave and go home, when you are ready to learn about all their worst habbits and not let it bother you. Essentually there is no time frame. It's a big step and if you aren't ready for it...it will fail.
2006-08-17 18:29:29 · answer #6 · answered by Tara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is ur life u move early cause u just wana risk ur self and u take time before do so cause u mean u respect urself before any hard decision
2006-08-17 18:24:27 · answer #7 · answered by peaches an cream 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
till marriage, if a female moves in with a male before marriage, then she is probably a sl*t.
2006-08-17 18:32:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is no real time limit on when someone should move in with someone when ever they feel comfortable with someone to share everything with them.
2006-08-17 18:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by lovelyaquariusfairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys are serious, i say go for it whenever you feel it is right. i moved in with mine after a year
2006-08-17 18:23:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋