I went out with a guy on one date and we just kissed. The following week I met another guy at a party and gave him my number when I was drunk. He called me and I told him I had just started dating someone, so I couldn't see him. My friends seem to think it was really wrong of me to give him my number and it's probably going to get back to the guy I dated. I didn't do anything with the guy I met at the party. Did I really do anything that bad?
2006-08-17 18:17:35 · 13 answers · asked by Kelly J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont worry about it. just leave it forget it. you had only dated the other once. read more on dating advice on this site
2006-08-17 18:21:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't have anything to worry about because what you did was just to give him your number and there's nothing wrong with that. Perhaps, the guy you met at the party could have been embarrassed if you did not give him your number because, chances are, he knew that you have one.
Don't worry too much even if the guy you kissed would know about your talking to the other guy. Don't mind what your friends are telling you. Just remember that you did not do any form of cheating on the other guy you kissed when you attended that party and gave that guy your number. Have peace in your heart.
2006-08-18 01:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. It sounds like you are not in a relationship yet with the first guy. If you had been dating for a while then maybe you need to ask yourself why you feel the need to give your number out to strange guys. But if you only just met the first guy I can't see what the problem is.
2006-08-18 01:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you didn't do anything wrong for starters, you were drunk. Secondly, you just gave him your number and you didn't do anything with him. On top of that, you only dated the first dude 1 time, and if was to get mad evidently you can get another man just from the party experience. All i can say is don't worry about it, if it get back to him oh well what can you say if it doesn't, it doesn't. If he really liked you he wouldn't break up with you over something that stupid.
2006-08-18 01:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by alana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If guy #1 hadn't asked you to date excusevly, then you did nothing wrong at all. Sounds like he didn't. You can give out your number to all the people you want till he asks otherwise. I would let him know I gave the number out before it's back to him. That will also give you an idea of where he's at in the relationship by his reaction.
2006-08-18 01:24:51 · answer #5 · answered by pritigrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only went out with the 1st guy one time, that's not enough time to make a decision to be in a relationship. That's why it's called dating. If the 1st guy asks if your seeing other people be honest. But your not doing anything wrong.
2006-08-19 23:52:17 · answer #6 · answered by Daz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OUCH! Man that is harsh! Yep you did something wrong you DRANK too much to the point it numbed your mind enough that you passed out your digits!! Do you have any respect for the guy you like or are you just dealin him?
If your dealing then keep giving out the number sooner or later you will find one you like enough to stop that. But here is a real question, what if it was the other way around and he gave out his umber to the hottest blonde in town AND SHE CALLED HIM!
2006-08-18 01:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by ferretcoach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your BF asked about you giving your number be honest but also tell him that you told the new guy that you can't talk with him because you are dating someone.
2006-08-18 01:24:01 · answer #8 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
child.. u didnt do anything wrong... u did .. jsut the right thing matter of factly.... u were honest to him about u seein someone... and if ur bf asks . just be straight forward.. if he doesnt accept it .. then forget it... hey... u would be able to call the guy u gave ur number too ...
2006-08-18 01:32:08 · answer #9 · answered by tachou1024 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yes don't give number to people you don't want to call ,bf may or may not find out who all knows what you did you and who else. hope your friend is a good one
2006-08-18 01:27:48 · answer #10 · answered by ann p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋