How come people you want to date are out of reach but people you would never think of dating are availiable?

Answer 1

This is an easy one.The way modern people are,We all search for what we want.Good looks,smarts,money,or whatever it is that makes them popular.We are all guilty in some way or another of wanting what the other one has,wanting what we cannot have or when it comes to the opposite sex,we want what looks good.There is nothing wrong with wanting these things,the problem lies in what we are not seeing.Most can just look at a person and say no they are not for me or some say they would never stoop that low and they are making these decisions based solely on what they see without even giving the person a chance.This falls in the catergory of not seeing the real person,not seeing what that person looks like inside.This is why there are so many that never can find the right person for them,they are looking at the wrong thing.Most that are considered loners,geeks,nerds or whatever else they are called in school are this way because they are the ones that never got a chance to show their heart to another unless it was to another loner,geek or nerd.All the popular people are the way they are because they know they can have whatever they want and these are the ones that break your heart.They love you and then leave you because the new wears off and they feel they have to find something else.

I say open your heart and look a little deeper into a person and yes this include trying to be friends with the ones you would never think of dating.Who knows,you may be passing up a real good thing.

Answer 2

Maybe because you have to be at the same level as the people YOU want to date meaning if the person you want is a 10 YOU need to be a 10. Meaning if your ugly or not so cute you can't go wanting to be with a FINE person who is flawless or better looking then you may be. Or something like that. You want a fine person so you need to be fit and have confidence or be up to thier standards

Fact
The people you attract are mostly the kind of person you are looks wise or personality wise eaither way. You know that saying you are what you eat. Same thing you attract people that see something in you that they see in themselves
(bad speelling,sorry)

Answer 3

I don't know why this is but the fix is to start dating the ones that will have you as long as they're not too icky and move up the ladder. I do this all the time and before I know it I have a hot gf. You may feel like a jerk for breaking hearts but its part of life.

Answer 4

Its called practicing until you reach the people you like. just date the people who you never think of dating so you can work your way to understanding why they don't attract you. Makes you more aware of what type of game you need to do when you want to make it work with the one you want.

Answer 5

You usually find a person when you are not looking and you very seldon find a person when you are looking.
It is like physics what goes up must come down.
A watched pot never boils .
lol
Just relax enjoy life and be yourself and someone will come along.
good luck

Answer 6

Cause Life Sucks Then You Die

Answer 7

its life playing one of its cruel tricks again.

Answer 8

that is how life goes, if you want my advice, start with who wants you.

Answer 9

isn't that the TRUTH, don't know why though

Answer 10

we want what we cant have