How do I get my girlfriend back.?

Question

Theres alot to this. So if you can really help also give a detailed explaination i know i need help..I have constantly messed up with my girlfriend wether i dont trust her or its just to much fights. When really i should have always trusted her, At points I asumed she cheated i always asumed the worst in her. and I constantly got second chances with her but kept skrewing my self over. This break up though seems very serious. I dont know if I wil get her back without help or for sum1 to get me threw this. I want to know how i can get her trust and her love back..at this point it seems like she hates me, this break up was awqward nothing led to it..but it led to fights and just she might be sick of me..maybe i should take time away from her wait for her to talk to me but i dont know when this should all happen or if i ever have a chance and if i do what should i say where shoud i go with all this. its such a confusing issue and i just need to be worked threw it. She means alot to me.

you can really help give a detailed explaination i know i need help..I have constantly messed up with my girlfriend wether i dont trust her or its just to much fights. When really i should have always trusted her, At points I asumed she cheated i always asumed the worst in her. and I constantly got second chances with her but kept skrewing my self over. This break up though seems very serious. I dont know if I wil get her back without help or for sum1 to get me threw this. I want to know how i can get her trust and her love back..at this point it seems like she hates me, this break up was awqward nothing led to it..but it led to fights and just she might be sick of me..maybe i should take time away from her wait for her to talk to me but i dont know when this should all happen or if i ever have a chance and if i do what should i say. I want to prove i wont be like that again or fukup. feels liek ive already lost her love though. and had to many chances, but i cant let it end likethis.

sorry typed that all twice. But yes i want to prove i wont do that again or mess up like that again that ive changed, ive stated this all before but i just mess up again and again with it but im trying hard to change but i dont know how exactly to get her love back...Its hard to work this all threw, But i dont want to **** up the same way. I got to jeleous over **** that dident happen, and it slowly drove her away. I want to give her, her space. But I want her to see how great we were too...I just need to know how to get threw this and what to do say and what to do for her to see i care and i dident mean things to be like this, But she wanted this break up. And she talked about a "new life" I seem greedy here..but its just i dnt want to loose somthing so perfect or end somthing so great like this..What do I do.

I wish i could just explain everything and just how i feel at points..but everytime some how or another i get her aggrivated or annoyed or get on her nerves with the same shyt. I try to avoid it and im trying to get myself together just at every small flaw she has to go so overboard i wishs he cud see things how i do..i guess you cant blame her for leaving after what i put her threw. i just want to make it up to her and try and win her love back makeher see it wil be different..the ammount of times ive said this or tried this I dont know what to do. Because she wouldent beleve i would change, and she doesent look to caring anymore. But there has to be some way to fix things. some small hope if she did love me so much. I want to change for her but I dont want to loose her.

Answer 1

It sounds like you are rather possessive, obsessive and controlling. Always accusing a person of cheating will drive them away. I would recommend that you back off and try to get some counseling. Your relationship was very unhealthy for both of you.

She may mean a lot to you, but until you can get your jealousy under control you should let her go.

Answer 2

Not knowing the whole story between you and your girlfriend makes it hard to answer your question. For the most part it sounds like you brought it on yourself and you can't blaim her for wanting out of the relationship.
You may have a better chance of letting her go and giving her some space.

Have you ever heard the saying if you love something let it go and if it comes back it was ment to be.

honestly can you say you would feel any different if a female treated you the way you treated your girlfriend.
Besides you never know the two of you may get back together in the end, some things just take time.
Maybe you should just keep yourself busy with other things, and stop expecting everything your way. remember she is human too and has rights as a person.
Relationships take a lot of things, comunication, trust, repect and many more things. and if it doesn't have any of those your chances in a relationship are slim to none.
Maybe you should enjoy this time to yourself and let her enjoy hers.
There is no sense in making both your lives misrrable.

either way good luck

Answer 3

Dude, get a clue! She's given you how many second chances? Do you really think you deserve another one? If you don't, just tell her so. Now is not the time to sugar coat things (if there is even anything left to sugar coat). It's in her hands. I know I wouldn't put up with you for that long. She might not come back. You do lose her, just don't lose the lesson. I hope you figure things out. You need to figure out why you can't trust people and then work on it.

Answer 4

sweetheart just wait until a few hours after the fight. then call her up and apoligize for whatever you said to her that could have hurt her. tell her that you think yall should talk things out before yall end it for good. tell her that you still have feelins for her and that you really don't want things to end. tell her that ur sorry for accusing her, but you are a jealous person and she needs to understand that. (U R a jealous person, but there's nothing wrong with that) That's a good thing! It just show her that u don't want anyone else to take her from u, and that she means alot to u.explain these things to her. she will understand. promise her that u will try 2 calm down alittle and take it slow the next time. just be happy u have her and nobody else does.
good luck

Answer 5

Dude, i have recently been going through the exact same situation. The first thing you gotta do is figure out how to (A.) Control your jealousy or (B.) Not let it show(maybe it'll go away). Let me give you a little background. I work with this beautiful female in a high stress area. We couldn't really let our feelings for each other be known by our coworkers(not allowed). So we agreed to not let it get out. However, while at work she would completely ignore me and talk to this other guy who is known for his sexual incursions, not unlike myself. The jealousy started there. After a few outbursts in private by me, I finally CALMED DOWN and told her that it made me uncomfortable. You risk showin insecurity in doing this but if she cares about you she will respect your feelings and try to stop doing whatever she is doing. My girlfriend stopped. But after that happened I couldn't help but be jealous every time they even looked at each other. She threatened to leave me 2 times before and she was going to, but I convinced her I would change by showin her how much I care about her(by talking to her and reassuring her she was right, in the end it was me and probably you that needs the reassurance), and showing her over the next 2-3 days how I was a changed man. Of course after that 3 day span I would begin to get jealous again, and start sayin mean shizznit. Three days ago she swore me off and said that there is no chance of us getting back together. This morning I was kissing her, and she has called me about shopping and stuff (girly stuff) 2 times today and it is only noon. Tell her that you won't wait forever. Let her see some pretty girl flirting with you. Man, just talk to her and try to ask her about why she liked you in the first place. Tell her that it is so much easier to remember the bad things in a relationship than it is all the good. Ask her if she will talk to you till she says yes, if only for 5 minutes. Tell her if there isn't any chance of ya'll having a relationship anymore, to not talk to you at all(not in mean way, but in the since that you love her and it would hurt 2 bad any other way, cause you want more than that.) Then have her recall some of the good things and talk about those. Get her saying yes. It doesn't matter what she is saying yes about as long as she is saying the word. Assure her that you would do anything to get her back, NO CRAZY STUFF. But go out of your way to step out of your regular actions, make her say to herself, this isn't like him. If you are like me, when you get mad you say some mean stuff that you always wish you could take back the next day, but when it is happening you just throw your hands up and say to hell with you, you disgust me. Show her you are the exact opposite of that by staying with her as long as possible and talkin about the stuff I said earlier(stretch it out) Do all this then repeat it a couple of days in a row. Hope it helps. let me know
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Answer 6

If she meant so much to you why all the distrust? Don't wait for her to talk to you. You have to talk to her, talk through your problems don't just let her go like that, you could just lose the best thing that happened to you.Like they say you don't know what you have till you've lost it.
4 example:
My boyfriend has cheated on me so many times I've lost count and I still stick around cause I love him from the bottom of my heart yet he always accussed me of cheating on him, which i never did. But he never appreciated me till now.Why? cause he's in jail and he can't even be close to me. so I hope my answer helps you. and good luck, i wish you the best. But if you keep accussing her she just could run to the arms of another guy.

Answer 7

Maybe you should get some professional help! and give her some space cause im sure she's probably exhausted with all the stuff she has been through with you.Tell her your willing to get some help or something and maybe start all over

Answer 8

Ти да нямаш камплекси? Върни сия!

Answer 9

You need to play the game right tell her how much you love her

Answer 10

jsut 2 points for no time to answer