k so ive known this guy for 10 years (wow, didn't realize its been that long) since i was in elementary school, and he was really sweet and all and i liked him A LOT then when we got into middle school he went to a different school that was nearby but our families are friends so we still saw each other a lot , his dad earned a lot and from the day he ralised that he totally changed into one of those "rich kids". he has three sides, in front of his friends all he talk about are those girls who really have no respect for themselves, in front of his parents he is the perfect A straight kid, in front of me he kind of tries to show off his money yet he can be sweet. i hate so much about him yet i still like him as in if anyone asked me who i want to marry i would say him even though i hate the type of person he is. uugggghhhhh, im so confused. HELP ME OUT if you can PLEASE i need some advice, should i tell him i like himand see if he changes or what????
2006-08-17 17:38:13 · 6 answers · asked by khghjhghu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no tell him ur dating this guy who dont have that much $ but he treats u like a queen
then see if he really really likes you
2006-08-17 17:45:00 · answer #1 · answered by ez-goin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think in your case its more of admiration of seeing some one change colours so fast and the care free life he is living.Its more of infatuation in school you had developed for this guy.He was sweet when he was young and its natural that you also liked him a lot but as you grow up your thoughts also changes,the way you look at things.So although from different schools you were able to be in touch with him thanks to family friendship.You are able to notice the change in this guy yourself. How can you trust a person who changes his colours so fast and that too with a drop of a hat?He cannot be trusted at all.He shows off to you and also trying to be sweet to you is just that he wants to have fun with you thats all.No long term relationship.Im sorry to say this.
You still carry the thoughts of a sweet guy image of him and not being practical.He is not the guy for you.Think you are very much confused.
How can you hate a person and at the same time want to marry him?
You are yet to get over the childhood infatuation.You have a soft corner for this guy right from childhood which you have developed over the years and that also makes you think of getting married to him.But practically you both are different.Although family freinds he is now grown up and has his own friends and life style which will not suit you.
You can be very good friends.He is not your cup of tea.What makes you think he will change?Infact its good for him and you to remain as friends.Your Mr.Right may be round the corner.So until such time be patient.Dont be in a hurry.You are still young.
2006-08-17 18:12:40 · answer #2 · answered by rajan kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you face him lower back? with your head held severe, look after interior the understanding that has he neglected out on some thing sturdy! you probably did easily no longer something to sense down approximately. You asked him a question. it rather is all. So p.c.. up those products of broken heart, via fact, woman, you'll want it a style of days once you meet Mr Soulmate.
2016-09-29 09:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by duchane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am glad to have found someone who exactly feel how i felt years ago towards my neighbor... only you could help yourself... only you could decide for the future of your "relationship" and only you could make or break the friendship you are sharing right now...
you TRULY love him... it's what you really feel towards him... you don't hate him in the real essence of the word... you hate him because he hasn't courted you... you hate him because despite the fact you are there for him, he still has time for OTHER girls... you hate him way too much because you have learned to love him for who he is... you love him as who he is...
congrats... you found true love!
2006-08-17 17:48:11 · answer #4 · answered by huggermugger4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i really like this guy to and i didnt like him after we started to go out and i found out that after i broke up with him i lost a friend so dont make that same mistake i made and lose a good friend cause u like him. oh and if he finds out u like him and he dosent like u than it is just somthin him and his buddys and laff about!!
2006-08-17 17:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he does not treat u well then ignore himall that matter if he treats u rite
2006-08-17 17:45:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋