I am about to get get married in 2 weeks .I am a mormon and do not believe in sex before marriage but my friends bought me a blow up doll as a gag gift for my batchelor party and I drank alcohol for the 1st time in my life and had my 1st sexual experience with the doll that they gave me and because of that I feel I cheated and now I can not marry my future bride . I was always taught that if you have sex with someone you should marry them. What should I do ??????
2006-08-17 17:31:38 · 30 answers · asked by irishlad 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The Catholic church would have a fit if they heard an 'Irishlad' is calling himself mormon. you are going to be in so much trouble. And we all know how much the Catholic preists love handing out punishments to young men.
2006-08-18 06:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by Irish_bi_female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a mormon but I read lots about them. I can understand your thoughts. But, believe me, you really didn't "cheat" your future wife though. The blow up doll just had been a joke and doesn't really mean anything.
You were raised up like a mormon and so you'll live like one - don't worry. You didn't do bad things. And yes, you were masterbating which is normal to everyone because everyone is doing this. And those who say they never do it they just tell you white lies - beleive me!!!
And I don't think that you're "in love" with this doll anyway. Go and marry your girl - good luck.
2006-08-18 00:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by down_under_lover_forever2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh. thats awful! i know exactly what you mean by that.. (the whole before marriage thing) You need to tell your future wife. Dont worry about the doll, if your fiance loves you as much as she claims. You should be able to talk it out. You are not in love with this doll, and I would say that its safe to say that your future wife will still loves you, people make mistakes. And just because you made one mistake doesnt mean anything. You shouldnt be forced into a marriage (the whole taugh to marry someone if you have sex with them). Even if you ended up doing that, there is something called "2nd virginty" and thats when you realize your mistake and you fix it. Good luck. Just tell her
"honesty is the best policy" =] the bestt to you
congrats on the wedding
2006-08-18 00:39:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell your fiancee what happened with the alcohol, and the masturbation experience with the doll. Talk to your Bishop about both of those, meet with your Bishop together with your future wife, and separately, and talk it out. It sounds like you just gave into peer pressure, and now feel guilty about the whole ordeal. The alcahol may have played a role in the experience with the doll. Talk to both of the above mentioned people, and, if needed, a counselor from LDS Family Services. Are you in love with your fiancee? or is it someone else, if you're not in love with her, don't marry her, if you have feelings for someone else, don't marry your fiancee, if you do, you'll only end up with problems.
2006-08-18 13:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by justinodhans982000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay dear you have answered your own "?" in your second statement to the last you said "I was always taught that if you have sex with some one you should marry them". well the doll is not some one maybe to you but to all of US it is just a doll. so remember "something"= doll "someone"= is a human. On my note you are still okay. Go and get married.
2006-08-18 00:42:02 · answer #5 · answered by angie s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can not believe you are cheating on me with a blow up doll!! You have really crossed the line this time!! I have no problem sharing our bed with other women, however, I am not sharing my bed with Pump a Hole In Me Patricia!!!
The wedding is 2 weeks away and you need to understand it is either her or me and remember who has cooked and cleaned for you all of these years with the only physical incentive to grace me on our wedding night!! And how satisfying will that be when your only experience was delivered by Fed Ex!!!
I'm telling my Daddy!!!
2006-08-18 21:16:51 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Know what you should do......
Dress the doll in a provocative yet taste full gown.
Thennnn....
Invite your Mormon friends over for a "party".
Thennnn....
Put on some soft lighting and Luther Vandross,
Thennnn....
Mix up a batch of Dad's Root beer and Vodka
Thennn...
Introduce them to you're "friend" after they've had a few "Soda Pops"
Thennn...
Let Nature Take It's Course
If the doll pops, you were never meant to be
But if she blows .....
I'll end it at that
---good luck---
2006-08-18 00:56:20 · answer #7 · answered by Jim S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with both the your future wife and the doll. Talk to both of them and have them talk to each other and come to a resolution. Then, do a role playing activity.
2006-08-18 00:42:50 · answer #8 · answered by Steve-O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... I really hope you're not planning on setting foot in the temple. Confess your pathetic behavior to your poor soon to be bride and talk to your Bishop. Clear the air and repent dude
2006-08-21 00:18:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess you'll have to marry the doll. Make sure she signs a prenuptial agreement.
2006-08-18 00:51:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋