My lover has a waman that he lives with. I cannot question him, I must take things the way that they are if I want to be with him. Well, I am out of the river of denial. He states he is the way that he is, and that women just cannot do thing s that men do. He calls me in the middle of the night, since I have began the detachment. He asks me where i've been, I asked him to take me to the *&%^& show, he stated that if I needed a man in my life to do those things with, then I should find someone else. The sex is cut off. I told him, I hav respect for a prostitute because she gets paid for her services he stated when he wants to turn a trick, he;d be sure t call. me. He calls constantly telling me to hold on and that he loves me. Do I cuss him out and tell him how I really feel or keep playing these games. I am the only one hurting. Why do men do these things to women, play head games, how could he call me fro home. I am being used. I think I love him. Comments please
2006-08-17 17:28:47 · 8 answers · asked by victory 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since you have started to disconnect, keep detaching yourself from him. He sounds like a big loser and when he says men can do things women cannot do, that means he is a jackass and you deserve better.
You are going to continually get hurt if you allow yourself to love a man that doesn't respect you.
2006-08-17 17:33:56 · answer #1 · answered by Kelli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can only treat you this way if you let him.Why would you let him?If he really wanted to be with you,,he would.You said that you "think" you love him.I dont think that you do.Move on,,better days are coming.Get out of the game,,its a no win situation.If & when he leaves this woman,,then you can take it from there but I wouldnt waste any more precious moments.Be strong.
2006-08-18 00:38:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the situation sounds like it sucks try changing your number and don't except any of his calls.
2006-08-18 00:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by lovelyaquariusfairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE FACT THAT YOU ARE WITH THIS MAN WHO LIVED
WITH SOMEONE ELSE. WHY ARE YOU STILL WITH HIM.
LEAVE HIM ALONG AND FIND SOMEONE ELSE THAT WILL
RESPECT YOU BECAUSE GIRLFRIIEND HE SHOW DOES
NOT. AND AND LONG AS YOU LET HIM HE WILL CONTINUE
TO DO WHAT HE DOING.
2006-08-18 00:37:23 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch his sorry butt and move on down the line.
2006-08-18 00:33:36 · answer #5 · answered by queenblafalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're a whore and you're his booty call. you'll never be number one. So keep being a whore.....it's the only move you have to make.
2006-08-18 00:33:55 · answer #6 · answered by stevenkray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
geeeees your nuts how dumb are you? call his gf , not you his real girldfriend he will never leave her, how long will it take for you to figure it out
2006-08-18 00:40:24 · answer #7 · answered by brinlarrr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get it...Are you homosexual and he's bisexual? Anyhoo, either way, leave his ambivalent a$$.
2006-08-18 00:34:24 · answer #8 · answered by 00jag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋