I had in a very tense relationship with my current bf for past 8 months. I tried to breakup but failed. There a lots of external factor why we still together. He is a very nice guy, but I just unable to convince myself to stay put with him. Lately, another guy come into the picture. He is not as affectionated as my current bf, but he able to open my mind to lots of things. We are very close and i could bring myself to discuss almost everything with him, except my relationship. It too sensitive to talk about now. He kissed me and my current bf found out yesterday and he is very very angry about what I done behind him. He ran out from house and never come home whole night. But the strange things is I do not felt guilty, but relieve after he ran out.
2006-08-17 17:28:39 · 6 answers · asked by CH 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You wanted things to end with the last boyfriend right?
Of course you don't feel guilty I will bet that you even feel relieved for having removed yourself from an unhappy situation. I would let it go and sever the knot completely so the poor guy can get on with life.
Can I be honest though? You could have done it with a lot less drama if you'd been upfront.
2006-08-21 00:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by Ragdollfloozie is Pensive! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe tt the main reason tt you din feel guilty is tt you actually dun love your current bf anymore. You feel tt the other guy is more suitable than u but u don't know how to relate this to your current bf. Since your current bf have found out what you have done to him, I think it is advisable for you to make a clean break to this relationship. This will actually be good for both of you coz you can choose to be together with the other guy while your current bf can move on with his life. If you let this sort of thing drag on, in the end you may be the sole loser in this relationship.
2006-08-17 17:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is because your heart is no longer with him. Your not married so either try to make it work and tell him we both need to put effort or leave him if you don't want to try anymore. Please don't continue to cheat. It only brings problems, and I hope your not one of those girls that wants that. Are you just getting "even" with him? Think about what you do.
Communication is key.
2006-08-17 17:39:19 · answer #3 · answered by WWJD: What Would Joker Do? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u don't love your current bf anymore.I think you should do a clean break up with him bcos u'll hurt him lots if both of u continues and both wouldn't be happy.
2006-08-18 18:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by wOo® 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dr Phil would say: "And how is that working for you?"
2006-08-17 17:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by georgia1402 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not in love.
2006-08-17 18:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋