I started seeing this guy and he seemed to be all into me and whatever. But, now it's all a game, and sometimes I feel like I'm just a booty call. How do I get past that? I am not a game player at all, but at the same time , do not want to freak him out and scare him off........................
2006-08-17 17:17:14 · 11 answers · asked by Jodi D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"you get past it" by telling him that you're not a "booty call" and you expect dinner and a movie or a walk in the park and hand holding, etc. You will either start "dating again" or never hear from him, either way, you will be better off.
By the way, YOU DO WANT TO FREAK HIM OUT if all you are is a booty call, because you're probably one out of 6 or 7 and trust me, he's not being safe with all of you. Good riddance to bad rubbish if thats all you are to him. Eighty percent (80%) of the people Worldwide that have AIDS are STRAIGHT! Think about that, the next time you do it without a condom.
Get a vibrator and/or start dating again!
2006-08-17 17:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dating is actually suppose to be fun, out meeting different people and experiencing new things. Now if you're trying to meet someone so that you can be in a relationship with, you have to let him know where you're coming from, but in subtle manner. Talk to them and find out what this person is all about. Now you slept with him because you chose to and I promise you that his previous actions showed you that he wasn't really trying to be serious. You probably wasn't paying attention or in denial. Just sit back and observe, don't chase, the things that are not said are the most important things that you need to pay attention to.
2006-08-18 00:26:48 · answer #2 · answered by ksfinney17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is only calling you for one thing only, then sadly but truly it is a booty call. If you want to try to make it work, talk to him, change plans to lunch dates. Don't give it to him so easy, if you don't want to be a booty call. Make him work for it...take you out!! If he is not interested in doing that. Move on, more fish in the sea!!
2006-08-18 00:26:47 · answer #3 · answered by TooSweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating is a game cause men are players. All of them, ok, well 95% of them. And yes, although its not very nice to say, to most of them we become booty call. When you figure out how to get past it, you let me know. Theres really no way of knowing what scares them and what doesn't. They never disclose thier feelings or what they're thinking. How are we supposed to know if they don't tell us? All I can tell you is, look real hard and long, you'll find one somewhere. and you'll know him when you find him. Best of luck :)
2006-08-18 00:22:51 · answer #4 · answered by onehot_mama23 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you feel like you're a booty call, it's not a game. You're his booty call. Plain and simple.
2006-08-18 00:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by Chicagoan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a game because men make a game of it. the best advice you will ever get is that 99% of men are jerks who will use you for sex. good luck finding the 1% you might as well just give up on love all together. it isnt impossible i did it and im doing alright being single. women are assholes too.
if you really want to find someone to love, know the guy really really well, know all of his deepest secrets develop a close relationship with him, then date him.
2006-08-18 00:23:30 · answer #6 · answered by pevehead 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
bc everyone wants to be a playa these days and no one wants to meet the one person that they could be happy with they are all lookin for the right nows until they are older then they cant find the right ones they usually settle for the ok ones
2006-08-18 00:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dating is a game to men.we are booty calls..you have to play it ..in order to find the best player..that is most suited to you..have fun playing ..its not just for men honey "play the field"..
2006-08-18 00:26:23 · answer #8 · answered by Ken and Wendy M 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
haha.... he wants to play a game huh??? well, you can play it better..... dont answer his calls, dont call him, and if you do answer, say, "oh hey let me calll you back im busy".
see what he does, if he wants you, he'll call you and leave messages wondering wj=here you are..
its soo funny. also, dont do anything for him, let him buy u dinners, movies, and always let him do the planning as to what your doing that weekend.. also, if u have tentative plans witht the girls, ditch him for them....
if he really wanst you in the end, you know hes serious.
2006-08-18 00:24:19 · answer #9 · answered by CaLi'S FiNeSt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it? I never knew that.
2006-08-18 00:23:23 · answer #10 · answered by lolitakali 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋