2006-08-17 17:10:46 · 15 answers · asked by texas boy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You cannot make someone to do something they don't want to. However, you can try to prove to her that you have all the qualities she wants in her partner.
2006-08-17 17:13:54 · answer #1 · answered by Chicagoan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends. If something didn't work out while you were planning a future relationship - that's one story. In which case you have to talk over what went wrong in the past, decide if anything changed that will make a difference for either of you. If you only want her back to have a fun ride and she's got the same plan - I don't suggest it'd work since you're here asking this question, and one thing she'd want you to do is know answer to this question (which is actually a very long one, could be hundreds of pages, so I won't put it here).
2006-08-18 00:20:18 · answer #2 · answered by Negotiator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found a very interesting book on line called something like "how to get your ex back" and I think the website was exback.com. It outlines a program that is really surprisingly insightful. It didn't get my exback, but it was clearly a lost cause in my case. This seemed to be a thing where if anything will work, the program here will. It may or may not fit your situation, but the principles are probably applicable. I highly recommend it.
2006-08-18 00:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by slavewhippingbitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess if you still really like her than you can try once more, but the thing is that you can't make some one do something they do not want to do. And don't push your luck, meaning if she says " no " then you should get over her and just stay friends. I mean if you really like her and care for her than you will respect her choice and be happy to be just your friends!! I am telling you all this because I have been in the same situation before. My ex pushed it to far and now we don't even talk and I will never give him any more chances.
2006-08-18 00:27:34 · answer #4 · answered by Vik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a female so when I say this it goes for me too. Some women are very vendictive so when pushed they push back even harder. Take things slow. If its meant to be then it will. Pray for what you need and let god know what your heart desires and he will listen. It may not happen today or tomorrow but he will hear you. There was a reason for whatever happened between the two of you so take it slow so that it doesnt repeat itself.
kandi
2006-08-18 00:16:43 · answer #5 · answered by Kandi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make a person do something they do not want to do.
You can talk about getting back together but discuss the real issues of why you split up to begin with and if you are interested make an effort on resolving them.
2006-08-18 00:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by Kelli 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you need to use the push pull method, that is when you compliment her and the embarass her in a playful way. You could also do what you did the first time to attract her and just try to work out whatever problems yall had and put the past behind you.
2006-08-18 00:17:13 · answer #7 · answered by DustinHastings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can reccomend is dont act a certin way just to make her want to get back with you; and leave the whole subject of dating her or someone else out of the conversation.then if you wait she will come back to you.
2006-08-18 00:18:08 · answer #8 · answered by kerry c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself... don't pretend to be somebody else's because that way she might love that person you are imitating..
do the best that you can... impress her but not to the point that you are actually putting pressure on her to get back to you... be the friend she can always count on... then start from there.
2006-08-18 00:19:40 · answer #9 · answered by huggermugger4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother...she is an ex for a reason, things have not changed one iota. Good luck
2006-08-18 00:14:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋