I'm in a relationship with my gf. And boy have I mangled things on my end!!! If there was ever a worst bf award, look no further!!!
First of all I started to text other women, and then I lied to cover my own ***, big mistake!
The fact is I love her very much and it wasn't until I ****** up (a few times) that I realized how much she really means to me. (but never slept with anyone but her)...that's the truth people!
I know she needs time to heal, I get that. I just want her to know how sorry I really am. Not for getting caught, but for how much I hurt my bunny? What can I do to make things right people? I was in the dog house before but now i'm standing on the neighbor's lawn!!!! Help!!!
2006-08-17 16:57:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. Once a dog always a dog. Sorry.
2006-08-17 17:03:04 · answer #1 · answered by Bugs Malone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, you cheated on her but didn't sleep with other women? What did you do? Kiss? Or just text other girls? Texting isn't a crime, but lying is. It is up to her if she forgives you or not, but as for her trusting you ever again that is a different story. You better show her that she is the best thing that ever happened to you. And when you think you have done enough, keep on going.
2006-08-17 17:05:32 · answer #2 · answered by prairiefire_14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her. it rather is not actual cheating. evaluate the style you will possibly have felt if she'd confessed in spite of the undeniable fact that, rather of you having to make certain the style you probably did. no longer confessing would have spared you some soreness, yet then what else is she mendacity approximately? possibly she might have advised you if she'd easily long exceeded via with it? besides, she despatched the nude photos yet i does not count quantity that as cheating. it rather is much less worrisome than skinny dipping, that's continually the place I set my standards for cheating. you do no longer know if she might have long exceeded via with it interior the tip, and now that it rather is been found out she says that she will have the means to no longer pass via with it whether given the possibility. Be happy issues befell the way that they did and don't be one in each and every of those prude!
2016-09-29 09:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by duchane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first that is good that you haven't slept with any one else, so that might be easier for you to get another chance. just talk to her and let her know that you have realized that you were wrong and you also realized that she is the one you need in your life. tell her that you would never hurt her again since you realize how much she means to you. but i is gonna take time for her to trust you again.
if she do give you another Chance, please don't mess up again, because she's not gonna keep taking you back.
good luck and stop hurting your girl, oh yeah how would you feel if she was doing that same thing to you?
2006-08-17 17:06:21 · answer #4 · answered by KEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is be honest with her. Stay away from texting, IM's, etc. You need to focus all of your attention on her and let her know how much you really love her. Just spend time with her and make her feel like she is the most important person in your life. If your lucky, she'll give you another chance. Good luck.
2006-08-17 17:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by ebethohlhaut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets face it - if you were that into "your bunny" you would NOT have been texting some other "bunny" so leave your "bunny`s" alone until you figure out what it is YOU want in a relationship...leave the girls to heal and you spend some time on you, cause you sound like you need it.
2006-08-17 17:03:59 · answer #6 · answered by cupcakes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No she should not forgive you. Look deep inside of yourself there was a reason why you started with that girl, something is missing in your relationship. Otherwise you would never have even thought about texting the other woman.
2006-08-17 17:06:50 · answer #7 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well big boy if it were me you would be in the neighbors trash can from now on. But if you must try to mend things you might try some roses and a candle light dinner that you prepare yourself. And actually anything else you think you can do.
2006-08-17 17:04:53 · answer #8 · answered by angeldolls4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apologize every day if she wont see u n person, send her text if that doesnt work call her from a phone number she doesnt know and also send her flowers with im sorry on the card
eventually this may sound like begging but dont be alarmed because thats what it is
2006-08-17 17:05:03 · answer #9 · answered by cowboy76360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
( wiping her eyes) damn you make me actually convince to forgive you and we aren't together what you need to do is tell her i am sorry do nice things to her swear off the cheating **** and throw are that damn black book( coming back to earth) stop testing other women and pay all the attention to her !!If you cheat again i will find out where you at and i will get her to destroy all your **** so you make right this time but the next time you do it then it will be on GET OFF THE DAMN COMPUTER GO TO HER TELL HER YOU SORRY AND DON'T DO IT AGAIN!!
2006-08-17 17:12:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my oppinion cheating is when you sleep with someone. All you did was talk to other girls? Lying is always dumb but she should forgive you. But now she will wonder if your cheating all the time. my advice is to never lie again to her or she will never trust you.
2006-08-17 17:05:31 · answer #11 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋