So I asked?

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Earlier I asked a question and got severial answers. and I took it upon myself to go get my phone back not talk to him and then i felt bad. So I tried to talk to him But I think he was drinking and not listening telling me he loves me blah blah blahI know this is bad and I feel bad not to be big headed but I can do a lot better then this But this guy is pretty cool good father to his son and everybody sees that. but at the same time everybody sees that he is @%$@#!@ up. And me Im trying to build my foundation Im willing to help but dont know what to do Im still doing good but I need some help I know that you guys do not know all of the details but some advice would be much appreciated should I still try to help him or not I feel bad What should I do? Oh yeah I did take my phone back you silly guys..and girls

Answer 1

Hi again,

Look there seems to be more than meets the reading eye. Looks like you really love him and also because he is a great dad. Then try the old method, still works, sit him down, when not drinking errmm hemm, and tell him what your position is. Tell him how he makes you feel and how you would like to feel. See, you present him to be an uncaring person who can give a whoot, but then you say he seems to be ay okay. Little bit of crossing vibes here. lol.
Try and talk to him. PURRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR !

Answer 2

Well I read your previous question and I'm a little confused. More than likely because I don't have too many details. So I hope I don't upset you with my observations...In the last question, you make him sound like what he truly seems to be (a coniving *hole) but here, it looks as though you're condoning his actions. I don't think he likes you and more so, because you seem to be such a nice girl, he knows that he can use you and that you'll let him. He kept your phone, eating your food and sleeping in your bed? Ask yourself this....does he sweep you off your feet? Does he go out of his way for you? Does he always consider your feelings and your opinions? If so, I don't think you would have had to go hunt down your phone and demand it back. I really hope you do something positive for YOU. You seem like a really caring person and you need to find someone that is going to give it back. Good luck to you!