Why do some women feel the need to force a man into a conversation?

Question

Some people may call it nagging, other may call it attention seeking behavior. I know all women don't do this and yes some guys do. But mainly women feel the need to talk, complain, and try to converse when the other person is not interested or even attentive to what they are wanting to say. Why do these women feel the need to keep talking especially when it's not a question?

Is there any way possible that women could ask for attention instead of demand it. Or how bout at least make the conversation interesting and even have a point? I think that would make most people happy. What do you think?

Answer 1

Women just don't understand that your silence doesn't mean you are angry with them or tired of them. So they will push for the conformation that you think they are important to you.
Just say, Honey, I love you, but I'm not up to a conversation right now. I need some quiet time or tv time to relax.

Answer 2

Because women are stimulated by conversaton and the majority of them feel like if they can get you to respond you might really give a damn about what they have to say. Some women use it as a game, let's see if he's paying attention and then later on it comes back to bite you. They can't help it. One, nobody has probably ever brought it to their attention. Two, they just assume it's alright to keep on going without considering the other person's feelings. When you meet a lady and you think you can be around her for awhile in your personal bio let her know you're not much for words that way if she comes back to attack you, you have a crutch. If she really likes you she'll be just attentive and remember that detail.

Answer 3

You are just like them too because you are feeling the need for conversation. You are on the internet wanting advice from people you don't even know rather then talking to someone real that wants your attention. What would be your response if someone said that you are nagging, complaining, and "FORCING" you to talk with them. Most woman want you to be interested in them and want to spend sometime talking with them. No one wants you to just sit there and not have anything to say. You don't have to say a whole lot but it only takes a few seconds to just acknowledge what they are saying. Why are you spending time with someone you DON'T want attention from. Sounds like she cares enough about you because she is taking the time with you rather then doing something else. Use alittle empathy. Good luck with your social skills.

Answer 4

Most women want to know that someone is actually listening to them. It could just be a day where everything is going wrong, and it seems like everybody is so interested in something else instead of listening. We get bored too, I know that when I want to talk to my husband, I try not to nag, or use words as a form of wanting attention. I want him to listen to me, even if it is ranting. I don't do it often, but when I do, I want him to try his best to keep me in line. Oh, Yes, some women think that being totally independant is the 100% best way to live their lives. Boy are they wrong!!! I happen to like some control. Anyway, we want to be listened to, like what we say matters. Believe me, when you (men) speak, we listen and try our best to please you. I promise that most of us women speak to be heard, not to get attention per say.

Answer 5

I think women are hard wired to talk explaine and then just to make sure you were listening the ask again. My husband says that if you just mumble something appropiate now and then they will leave you alone. I think he only listens to about every third word I say. But hey if I get an answer I quit talking.

Answer 6

women see the world through men eyes.so we need to ask a lot of questions. Men are very visual and women love to communicate....if the two work together that is real power.....but too bad that never works

Answer 7

these women are what we call "desperate" or "depressed" or even "lonely." they have nobody to talk to so they decide to chat you up and bug the hell outta you. as a woman, i get the same thing from my friends. it sucks ***, but sometimes you just have to sit there. make them feel better about themselves and then leave.

Answer 8

Really? I feel it so hard to talk in general. I guess they just need a way to communicate, a way to reach out and let someone know they are there and care. :)

Answer 9

I think most women are more mature and like conversation

Answer 10

could be b/c some men are like me and don't talk enough. i think its only a problem when people aren't compatible in how much they talk. much like everything else. you don't notice a lot of things about people unless it is 180 degrees different from yourself.