Can a man treat a woman so good that she begins to take advantage of him, such as always getting her own way, and saying she will leave if she doesn't ? Even with all of that she still finds reasons to be upset and is always keeping him on edge by saying she doesn't know if they will work out, but telling him always to keep pursuing ?
2006-08-17 16:39:44 · 22 answers · asked by TC/AC 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no limit to the one you really love... there should be no limit!
2006-08-17 16:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by lolitakali 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay I'm gonna be real..At first glance of you're question I was gonna say Yes. And I still say that however after reading the details you should be asking yourself another qeustion... Kid this is not the one for you woman are supposed to be spoiled but only on occassions. We expect men to be dogs and not listen and not remember. So when we say "oh red is my favorite color and I really like the handbag" A guy would say "hey she likes red I'll buy her a red handbag." Simple things on rare occassions. If you are constantly giving then thats all its gonna be. It should be the other way women sometimes live to meet the demands of the man. Again thats not your case you should ask yourself is this really for you or else you'll be broke when you finally figure it out. :>
2006-08-17 23:56:40 · answer #2 · answered by cubby12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be mutual, and, when it becomes one-sided, that is a very bad thing, and needs to be corrected.
She won't say she will leave if she doesn't get her way, when you both are about 9 years old! Right now, at the age of about 5 it is normal to stamp the foot and demand weird stuff!
2006-08-17 23:46:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll level with ya bro.
Women will *ALWAYS* find something to be pissed about. Its part of their evolutionary development over the eons.
By showering her with love and affection, this drive is repressed, until finally the woman must raise her levels of naggishness to the correspondingly high level of "good stuff" in her, resulting in a backdraft of biahbiah!
So lower her standards a bit. Let her wash some clothes. Wake her up at 3 in the morning to iron your whitie tighties. Then tell her straight-up "Hey, **I** WEAR the schlong in this family, and its high time you figgered that out, princess little miss mary selfishness. Now where's my beer?"
TRUST me, it'll work out fine. You both have newfound levels of love and respect for one another.
-Daniel
2006-08-17 23:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that woman sounds like me!! My husband spoils the heck out of me and I know I take advantage of him. In fact, I'm playing on the computer right now while he is dealing with our kids. To be honest, I sometimes wish he didn't do so much for me because It has gotten to the point that I know that he will do it for me, so why even bother??? It has also caused me to become SO lazy.
2006-08-17 23:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by Delite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a woman was to treat me that way anyone would know she is not in love and why waste time and feel like you have to walk on egg shells all of the time
2006-08-17 23:49:40 · answer #6 · answered by Iceman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only time you can really treat a woman to good is when she dislikes all the showering with gifts. Now on the other hand once you began to do those things you have to keep doing them forever, and if not prepare to be canceled. if she wont be sensitive to your needs, and you hers its time to move around.
2006-08-17 23:53:08 · answer #7 · answered by lktt71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can be too good and they don't respect any guy that is good to them. they will leave any guy that treats them good saying "your a nice guy but" you are not a challenge and not "Broken" in need of a women to fix you. you have to lower your self to keep the by treating the with less respect than you think should be given if you wish to keep them
2006-08-17 23:48:26 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There something called emotional balck mail you should know about! then yes you can spoil someone too much. If they are good they would apriciate it if not they would use it to their advantage and make your life a living hell. Maybe if you take her up on her words you would see thats she's full of hot air! advice: do it take her up on her words, stay strong and see how she;ll come running back
2006-08-17 23:45:51 · answer #9 · answered by WICCA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a matter of treating a person, man or woman too good, it's how that person reacts, if they respond by treating you with the same care then it's wonderful, if they take it to their advantage then they didn't deserve it in the first place.
2006-08-17 23:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a prize.
Some women hate it when guys let them walk all over them. Some women take advantage of the situation. Sounds like she's the latter.
2006-08-17 23:46:16 · answer #11 · answered by mightyart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋