I have been seeing this guy for a little over a month now. We both work nights so we can see each during the day and weekends. He seems to only want to see me on the weekends now. During the 1st 2 weeks we saw each other at least 3 times a week. I really like him and he says he really likes me. Why do you think he only wants to see me on the weekends? I am going to talk to him tomorrow about it and let him know how I feel. It just bothers me. What do you think?
2006-08-17 16:36:41 · 24 answers · asked by want_me_luv_me 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
His girlfriend works weekends.
2006-08-17 16:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by Stranger in a Strangeland 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just rememebr you are both working night, so when you get home you must be tired and want to sleep in for as many hours as possible. Reason why he probably wants tos ee you on weekends is because he doesnt hafta worry bout going to work later on and can spend the day with you instead of a few hours. Im sure there is nothing to worry about, jus a little lack of sleep.
2006-08-17 23:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by Aisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is too wiped out during the week to be at his best for you. Everyone wants to put their best foot forward in the beginning of the relationship. What does he do? Could just be a scheduling thing. Just be careful with that benefit of the doubt,...not always the thing,....good luck.
2006-08-17 23:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by longhair140 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he's not married if that's what you're afraid of. Normally, married men spend their weekends with their family.
Maybe he is busy with his work? You say that he works at night. Maybe he wants to take a very nice long sleep at daytime so that he won't get sleepy when he is at work.
2006-08-17 23:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by Little Detective 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out if he's married or involved with someone else? Don't allow yourself to be his "weekend girl". If he can't see you during the week then maybe you shouldn't see him at all. Talk to him and find out.
2006-08-17 23:42:44 · answer #5 · answered by Shay 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He only wants sex during the weekend?
2006-08-17 23:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by louielouie1688 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat the small stuff, just make the most of the time that you do have with him neediness is a turnoff, both for guys and girls
2006-08-18 01:49:55 · answer #7 · answered by Tammy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, absence makes the heart grow stronger. He might just need time to himself.
2006-08-18 00:21:23 · answer #8 · answered by starr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably got other things to do. People do have lives and some of them are quite busy.
2006-08-17 23:43:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys like to chase. You have let him know that you are toooooooo interested. Since he knows that he doesn't have to work for you, he has lost not all, but most interest.
2006-08-17 23:41:33 · answer #10 · answered by flightsimulator58 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋