parents suck,help me for real?

Question

my parent are the most non fair parents in the world they like u cant hang or talk to ur older brother and sister cause they are a bad example,just cause they stayed with there friends kina late and lied a lil,and they expext me to be like ok im not gonna talk to my bro and sis i love them ,and they saying that i cant talk to my guy friends cause they say all they want to do is get in ur pant ,i mean no they dont not all guys are like that ,iv talked to guys and sure some do but not all ,wat should i do i need serious help

im crying cause i cant talk or see my brother and sister they are living with my grama now

Answer 1

hey.
im kinda got the same problem.

my girl friends are bad influence according to my parents. cz they swear and drink and stuff.

then there is my guy friends. they dnt want me to have any. like urs, they think that all guys want to do it get into ur pants.

im not allowed to go to parties or watch a movie, like normaled teens. coz its not edifying.

im not allowed to do alot of stuff. they are constantly breathing down my neck and telling wat to wear and wat to do with my life.

They tell me i HAVE to be a doctor when I leave school.

My parents throw ALOT of hurtful things to me, like im not matured enough, im ungratful etc.
it kills heaps more than anyone really knows.

My parents dont trust me and it doesnt take a genius to see that. they treat me like i go no feelings and it hurts alot.

i just wanna say that I understand.
and if u ever need to talk or anything..im here.

my addy is: [e-mail]
n anytime u need to talk or anything like that..just email. Anytime ur about to snap email me. Im here to listen, give advice, anything.
I know wat it feels like..I know wat its like to live a life that ur parents are toally controling.

Anytime..remember.

Bye..
Venita
xoxo

Answer 2

Well I don't know how old you are, but seems like your going through your teens/highschool. Everything your parents are saying is normal for a girl your age b/c their trying to protect you. Now why you can't talk to your older brother or sister is kind of different. But all the other stuff is true. You don't want to see it now, but they're right. In order to be an adult you have to make adult decisions and show and prove to them your headed down the right path. Your stubborness can lead you into a state of confusion. Trust me....

Answer 3

there are obviously things that your older brother and sister have done that they don't want you to they are only trying to protect you which suxs you will never learn if you don't make mistakes of your Owen just don't go to far all you might en ed up making one that is insensible and sometimes over protective mums and dads are good to have for those times but in the mean time tell your mum and dad that you need to learn from your Owen mistakes and the more they protect you the more you will rebel. To shut them up try getting a job see by showing them you a responsible they will back off you a little but winging like a little kid they are only going to get whores.

Answer 4

Oh this is terrible. I am so sorry you miss your brother and sister so much. Can you see them at your grandmother's house at all? All "guy friends" do not want to get into your pants. It sounds as if your parents are taking it out on you because they are mad at your brother and sister.

I don't know what you can do sweetie except wait a while and see if your parents get over it. Can your grandmother help you at all?

Good luck to you.

Answer 5

Kinda have some cautious/somewhat overprotective parents....My parents were like that. They are trying to tell you what is best but dont stress on it you will have to work with them and not against. That will only make it worse. I ve lied countless times and paided off some and then got burned, be trustful with them it will pay off.

Good Luck

Answer 6

gee, you have such a hard life