Even if your a guy, help!!!! ok, im visiting my dad and theres this guy that ive met a few weeks ago, andi feel like ive known him forever, and i can be myself with! I will be leaving in two days and i wont see him for a year! But next year i will see him for 2 months! He thinks that if he makes a move, i wont like him and he'll ruin everything (Ive heard from his best friend, who is my brother) So, I dont know if i should make the first move, and then next year when he sees me we can go out or should i just wait? i can usually figure this stuff out, but im losing my mind right now!!!!!! Please dont let other people answer this!!!!! Just give me your opinion and i will appreciate it more than anything in the world!!!!!! Thank you so much
2006-08-17 16:06:26 · 8 answers · asked by crazychik17 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
please hurry im gonna see him tommorow!!!!!
2006-08-17 16:07:20 · update #1
(the whole beautiful and confident thing is because even though i feel like i can be myself around him, im still not confident with everything i say, and if you could give me some tips or something my life would be perfect!
2006-08-17 16:08:45 · update #2
OK, first thing i would do.... no strings attached. Give him a kiss goodbye or whatevre, tell him not to wait for you, don't make him or you put your life on hold because of this move. Tell him, you have no expectations for you're return, you would liek to reamine close, and whatever happens, happens.Chances are, he will understand that this woudl be what's best.
2006-08-17 16:13:07 · answer #1 · answered by Karlene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, well if your not going to see him for a year i really wouldnt worry about it a mean a year is a long time and you guys will most likely move on and find new people, i don't think you will both wait a year
2006-08-17 23:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Megs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a move and don't wait! call him and text him and maybe even plan visits over the next year because he sounds totally perfect for you
2006-08-17 23:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by emilyy40193x3babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i dint read all of that but im telling you make the move no cuz may be he wont be free next year! and i know how u feel as well!
2006-08-17 23:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by Renata 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about it anymore. Don't fret over what you should say, or anything; just do it! No regrets. Go for the gold. You'll feel worse wondering, "Should I have _________?"
2006-08-17 23:12:25 · answer #5 · answered by John C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definatly make the first move. if he is as great as you make him seem then you should tell him how you feel about him. and just make the move already!! = ]
2006-08-17 23:13:46 · answer #6 · answered by KateRenee_x3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is like the perfect man for u
2006-08-17 23:11:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your brother about it : ) but ii think you should do it if you really like him.
&& your brother knows him best, cus they`re bestfriends. hehehe. or even better, talk to HIM about it : )
2006-08-17 23:13:35 · answer #8 · answered by jadeee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋