This kid at school that I like walks home with me and we hang a lot, but he's not making a move!!!!I don't want to make the first move because the guys are sposed to do that, what do I do?
2006-08-17 15:50:48 · 24 answers · asked by Alexandra Rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Alex please girl u better go 4 it who says the guy makes the first move girl please. go Alex, go Alex, go Alex.
2006-08-17 15:57:08 · answer #1 · answered by mf mf mf mf mf fmf mf mfmfmfmfmf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys aren't "supposed" to make the first move- and these days, some expect the woman to. He is probably shy, younger guys usually are. Just tell him how you feel...the worse that can happen is he will say he doesn't like you. If he walks you home and you guys hang out alot, there's a good chance that he does. Go for it!
2006-08-17 22:55:32 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs.H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girls can make the first move, too! unless you're planning on possibly waiting months, go ahead and make a move. you'll be really surprised what happens! a lot of guys feel scared to make a move because they don't want to turn a girl off. so get ahead of the game and go for it!
2006-08-17 22:58:15 · answer #3 · answered by emilyy40193x3babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am seriously going through the same exact thing right now with a guy who doesnt seem very shy, but i guess he is! Tommorow will be the lasy day of me seeing him, (for a whole year) and I'll make you a deal, if you will make the first move with your guy, i will too!!
2006-08-17 22:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by crazychik17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there really is no reason that guys should make the first move, girls just expect that guys will always make the first move.... if you like him this much, ask him if he wants to go to a movie or something...... just think, guys usually make the first move, but their just as scared as girls are, just go for it! and stop holding back! i hope i helped
2006-08-17 22:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah Joy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried flirting a bit? like the little hair behind the ear and the nice laugh and stuff? i think thats a start and is cute and maybe you will know if he is interested or not oh and i m a guy and i think girls should make moves too
2006-08-17 22:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by blue9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 27 and the person I had a crush on had a crush on me too but I didn't know it and wou;d have never thought he would but now he's married and we will never now what could be. Take a chance. I know rejection can hurt but what id he doesn't reject you? Make a move but be smooth about it.
2006-08-17 22:56:45 · answer #7 · answered by favoritecolorsblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why? you can make the first move, I did and ended up getting married to him. And if you still do not want to make the first move there's always "the hinting game", Ask him what type of girls he like and naturally he'll ask you, then describle him. lol
Good luck
2006-08-17 22:58:18 · answer #8 · answered by WICCA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl just speak up...guys don't always have to make the first move..he maybe shy..
2006-08-17 22:56:09 · answer #9 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a hint dear or probably you have to make the first move.
2006-08-17 22:55:49 · answer #10 · answered by sassy_sexy_honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k.. some guys are either to nervous to make a move.. or don't realize you like them and they don't make a move unless there sure.. make sure u give him alot of hits that u like him.. if he doensn't make a move then make a move first.. its not that big of a deal who makes a move first.. if u both like each other than it doens't matter.
2006-08-17 22:56:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋