how do I tell someone something that will ruin ur relationship? well it might! not it's not cheating on the spouse. but I have a secret that i've been hiding and need to tell! how should I go about doin this! I know he wont leave me, but he will be upset? what would u do!
2006-08-17 15:48:40 · 6 answers · asked by boobear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In a true, committed relationship, secrets are not good, whatever it is. If you already know he loves you, and that he won't leave you, then you need to just sit him down and tell him what it is. Pick a time when you know he won't be distracted, when you know you will have enough time to talk, and just say, "There is something I have wanted to talk to you about for a long time and I need to do it now. I need you to listen, and let me say what I need to say, and then we can talk it out". Have faith in your relationship and your love and it will work out. Good luck!
2006-08-17 15:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by pixiechic_77 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Letting us know what the little secret is might have helped.
Anyways, pick a right moment and just tell him. Sometimes what we think is serious may not be so for the other person. People really appreciate it when you tell them something that they know must've been hard for you to say.
Good luck.
2006-08-17 15:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, you need to tell us, the answerer's, what the problem is before we are able to assist you.
2006-08-17 15:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lay it out on the table and if he is ok with it, then your good to go. keep it bottled up and it will ruin you.
2006-08-17 15:55:59 · answer #4 · answered by civicsea25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what is your secret? I wouldn't know what advice to give...
2006-08-17 15:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs.H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-17 15:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋