I'm 15 and he's 17 he hasn't pressured me to do anything I don't want to do and we've be together for 2 months. [6/5/06 is when we got together] I really do love him.I really want to tell my parents but I'm afraid they'll make me break up with him...
2006-08-17 15:42:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, to tell you the truth, you haven't really "gotten together" because you don't even know the guy. Tell your parents about it. and you can't love someone on a computer screen who you've never met face to face. I mean, he could be a grown man who wants to hurt you instead of the 17 year old you think he is. Not to be rude, but have you learned nothing from articles about girls getting killed by guys who they met on the internet? Tell your parents, then go find a face to face relantionship, not a cyber one.
2006-08-17 15:49:05 · answer #1 · answered by ChaiTea 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's over the internet, how can you say it's love??? Have you ever met face-to-face????
You're 15, for crying out loud. Get out and meet some REAL people!!
You should definitely tell your parents, and here's why... if you have not met him yet, there might be a good possibility that he's a sexual predator. This is EXACTLY how men find young girls to abuse!!!! If you think I'm kidding or over-reacting, just pay attention to the news once in a while! Or go to the Missing & Exploited Children website. NO joke - hundreds of boys AND girls are abused through the internet every single day.
With that lecture over, you should still tell your parents you're seeing someone, whether or not they approve. The fact of the matter is, they ARE your parents, and you need to respect their wishes, and their rules for as long as you're living under their roof; its as simple as that. If they wouldn't let you have a BF in school, they're definitely not going to be pleased with this hidden relationship - for a lot of reasons.
Be smart about it, please.
2006-08-17 22:50:59 · answer #2 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what i would do, is, (this might sound weird) but meet him with a group of friends, and make sure its like a public place..u no, if ur friends say he's a nice guy, then u should just tell your parents that u just met him, maybe u dont have to say on the internet...
its safer to tell ur parents...in case anything happens. they'l know wats best, even if you think it may be the wrong decision
2006-08-17 22:48:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
For your personal safety, let your parents know what is going on. There are so many people on the Internet pretending that they are someone that they are not; as far as you know, you could be involving yourself with some 45 year old pervert. Protect yourself my dear, from the Internet psychos.
2006-08-17 22:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by JEFFAVEGRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like the guy get to know him better before you decide to meet him or anything...talk to him on the phone and get to know him better 2 months isnt that long of a time but if you know that you do have feeling for him and that you dont thin khes going to pressure you to do anything then decide if you want to tell your parents if you do tell them just explain to them how you feel about this guy and tell them that you really like him..they nay not understand but you have to give it a try
2006-08-17 22:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by Ty C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
break up immediatly, he's probably a 45 year old prevert. plus if you live with your rent's your way too young to be dating online. and the fact that you're unsure of whether to tell your parents is a sign your unsure of the relationship. break up and get a real boyfriend.
2006-08-17 22:56:31 · answer #6 · answered by Blair 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he does not live anywheres near you, don't bother telling them, so many of these online romances are just that, ONLINE. My son went thru it, and its over and done with from the time he came back from his first visit with her. I was actually very sad for her, because I really liked her.
2006-08-17 22:49:20 · answer #7 · answered by June V 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
naww forget it don't tell them parents blow stuff way outa proportion instead relax be calm and be thankful because net dating can really work sometime i have heard of countless people getting married etc so just sit back and relax and be happy with the person your with even tho its over the net other people have no right to critize it etc
2006-08-17 22:48:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't consider someone you're dating over the Internet your boyfriend until you've actually met them in person. You can not judge chemistry online.
2006-08-17 22:48:55 · answer #9 · answered by acidicblackrose 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask him to come to your house and introduce him to your parents as your friend. Once they get to know him they might relax a little.
2006-08-17 22:48:55 · answer #10 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋