There are several avenues for this. One is looking through personals, either in print or on-line. A few websites (http://alt.com/ , http://www.collarme.com/ ) offer personals for Dominant and submissive men and women. There's likely to be some in your area that have a listing on some of these sites.
However, I tend to recommend avoiding the on-line scene and suggest meeting others face-to-face. There's always the club scene, but that usually remains superficial. Instead, I recommend getting involved with a nearby BDSM community. They often have a web presence that can be found on the Internet, along with contact information. Usually this will lead to attending a "munch", where you can meet others with similar interests in a non-threatening public setting. After that, it depends on the nature of the group.
Going into the BDSM community is usually the best and safest way to go. Even if you don't find whom you are looking for, chances are that somebody might be able to point you in the right direction. Networking in the lifestyle community is quite common.
I wish you luck in your search.
2006-08-19 16:02:19
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answered by Ѕємι~Мαđ ŠçїєŋŧιѕТ 6
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Find an older woman. Older woman tend to want to teach younger guys things that older man will not due. It's a turn on for older woman too but don't let them run over you. Have enough aggressiveness to know when to stop it.
2006-08-17 15:29:27
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answered by favoritecolorsblue 2
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