i dont want to sound full of myself or anything but i have been asked out a lot and i really dont want to go out with some of these girls but i dont want to hurt their feelings so i normally go out wit them cause i cant say no. can u teach me how please help
2006-08-17 15:10:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Politely say "I am flattered, but no thank you". Be polite and smile, be nice.
2006-08-17 15:15:52 · answer #1 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell it like it is and drop it they'll find someone else. Ok for example you wouldnt want a girl to go out with you b/c she couldnt say no thats shady so just tell it like it is just remember how you'll feel if someone did that to you save the embarrassment
2006-08-17 15:17:17 · answer #2 · answered by latina_lachula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody likes rejection, but its just a part of life...going out with someone you don't like is dishonest...if someone asks you out, and you don't want to go, just smile and say "I appreciate the offer, but no thank you"....you've taken the worst of the sting out by being polite, and smiling...but also said what you meant (that you don't want to go)...
2006-08-17 15:17:06 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well so they dont get sad u should tell them u jus want 2 b there friend cuz u dont think of them in that way !!! they shouldnt get that sad but if they do jus b a close friend !!!
2006-08-17 15:16:47 · answer #4 · answered by ~♥~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
You see, you hurt them even more by going out with them. You give them hope. And that is very unfair.
Why dont you tell them that you like someone else or you are already with someone else.
2006-08-17 15:16:34 · answer #5 · answered by Julia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no thank you. Or tell them you're seeing someone at the moment.
I think they'd appreciate a "no" rather than a pity date.
2006-08-17 15:16:58 · answer #6 · answered by Lady J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them in a low tone manner saying thank u nt today maybe another time..i will call u...dun speak more words than they do n keep a gentlemen tone..they will respect u more rather them assume u will sure comply when they request..back to our side guys!
2006-08-17 15:17:19 · answer #7 · answered by Mobiken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just come out and tell the girls that you don`t want to. you are hurting then by go out with then. girls thanks you like then if you go out on a date. so said no.
2006-08-17 15:19:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them that your not looking for a romantic relationship. Just be compassionate and understanding when you tell them.
2006-08-17 15:24:24 · answer #9 · answered by favoritecolorsblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest and just say no...
i think it would hurt their feelings more if ya went and did not want to...people can tell things like that
be fair to yerself and them
be cool...
2006-08-17 15:16:15 · answer #10 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them You have a girlfriend and youre extremely faithful
2006-08-17 15:15:41 · answer #11 · answered by skdfjasl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋