Ok...so here’s my story....
About a month ago I asked this girl out whom I have been friends with for several years. She said that she didn’t want to sate me and that she just wanted to be friends. I had no problem with that so we both decided to remain friends and we vowed that there would be no awkwardness between us. Well to my dismay there was awkwardness between us. She wouldn’t talk to me and every time I tried to talk to her she would answer with one word and sometimes not even answer at all. About two weeks after I asked her out she called me up all excited and happy wanting to know if I wanted to go on a road trip with her and two other friends (the two other friends are boyfriend and girlfriend and I know them well). I was excited because I thought maybe things would be back to normal between us because she sounded really excited when I told her I was going. Boy was I wrong, it couldn’t have been any worse. During the trip she still continued to not talk to me and gave me one word answers and sometime on answer when I tried to start conversation. She also wouldn’t walk next to me when we were walking. Basically she avoided me the whole trip. At this point I had given up any hope I had that things between us would return to normal. After the trip it’s as if she’s a new person. Now when we hang out she makes eye contact with me constantly and touches my arm. She talk to me and ask me questions and answers my questions. It’s weird because now it seems as if she like me. But I have know clue...I think she’s messing with my mind. I know some of you are probably thinking just give up on this girl but I like her to much to do that. All I want is to be her friend with no awkwardness between us and is something more happens then great!!!
So here’s the question....
1) If you could analyze the situation and tell me what you think that would be great.
2)Do you think she likes me?
3) Why was she ignoring me?
4) Why is she flirting with me now?
2006-08-17 15:02:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should I ask her best friend whats going on? This is the girl that went on the road trip.
2006-08-17 15:24:17 · update #1
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-08-18 16:40:32 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This sounds almost exactly like what happened to me last January. I was interested in a friend of mine after she broke up with her boyfriend, and she backed away from me, so I figured no problem, she just wants to be friends, I can handle that. So I relax, and then she must have sensed it since she called me one night to go to the movies with another couple. I said I had plans, and she literally begged me to go for 5 minutes. So I went, and then she ignored me the whole night. And so I backed off again, and then the cycle repeated itself many times. Dude, be careful, it screwed up my head and we are now no longer speaking. It turned out she just wanted my attention and got her kicks feeling like she was having to keep me at arms length, so to speak. My advice: don't give in to her when she approaches you, just play it cool and don't be available to her. If she presses you, say she has been flaky lately and you dont accept such behavior. Then she will know she cannot get away with all her drama bull**it. And I doubt she likes you, or she wouldnt treat you that way, which is wrong. Good luck.
2006-08-17 15:19:29 · answer #2 · answered by Steve 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the whole thing seems pretty messed up, your friend is acting really wierd. maybe while on the trip she saw something she had never seen in you before and now she likes you. but if i was you i would ask her directly. tell her how you think she's acting wierd and get to the bottom of things
2006-08-17 15:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by piratebunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) she probably dose
2) she was afraid of ruining your friendship
3) she relized you two could be like your close friends who are dating.
I hope I answered your questions and if sh e dosen't like you im sure there will be others.
2006-08-17 15:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by Amber E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man ...i feel sorry for u..the same thing happened to me......buh except i never asked her out.......i think she is juss messin wit u.........i dont know y girls like to do that........im not sayin all girls do that buh from my experience...most of them do......but if u think shes not messin around then juss ask her out agen.....if she says no then shes messin wit u and now u can forget it....
2006-08-17 15:15:47 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. idunno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.b cuz she shy.she likes you.
Hope i could help
2006-08-17 15:09:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she does like you...go for it.....just dont come on too srong or you'll get rejected.
2006-08-17 15:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋