* I might move to this beautiful 2 story, 4 bedroom house.
* If so, I might leave me school, I love my school.
* But I wanna move cuz I live in a studio now.
* But i don't wanna leave my school and friends.
* I don't wanna make NEW friends again.
* If I move, how will I make people like me?
* I don't know what to think,I've been thinking these thoughts all day and I'm exuasted.
2006-08-17 14:53:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It is easy to make new friends, but you can't make people like you, they just will if you are a nice person.
2006-08-17 15:00:51 · answer #1 · answered by Nelson_DeVon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I read the points you have listed; I get the impression that you really, really would like someone to support you on the decision you allready feel is the right one for you... I sence that what you really want is to stay where you are - continue to go to your regular school and stay with your regular friends.
What is the most important for you? Your friends and your invironment or your house and space to live on?
If you stay where you are and decide to be satisfied with that choise, you have to forget about the larger house. If you are lucky and look around a little, a larger and nicer place to live in may be found in your neighbourhood? It will take some more time maybe, but you'll continue to live near by your friends.
If you move to this new house, and begin a new life with new friends; you can allways keep your old friends too. You can go visit in weekends, and they can come visit you - with the four bedrooms and all. Besides - you'll make new friends. It takes time (again - you have to be patient...)... The younger you are, the easier it is.
PS And in school, there are allways someone new - they'll need to make friends too, so you won't be alone wanting new friends.
Good luck on your choise.
2006-08-18 15:51:35 · answer #2 · answered by IfYouSeeKay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a list of pro's and con's. which is more important to you?A beautiful new 2 story, 4 bedroom house(costly), or old friends and old school? If you stay where you're at now, you'll spend the rest of your life wondering if things could have been better for you If you move, you may someday feel the same way about the new friends you've made,and your new school. My dad always used the phrase "Make new friends but keep the old. One is silver the other is gold." He was right!
2006-08-17 22:20:00 · answer #3 · answered by smommeee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. That's the best advice I can give you. Every choice we make in life is balancing, and often it has positives and negatives (otherwise we wouldn't have to decide - we'd just do it).
What do you really feel, and what is more important? A nice roof over your head or comeraderie? A tough choice. Personally, I believe that friends are like air and water. We tend to take them for granted until they aren't there, and then we realize how much we miss and need them.....
Good Luck!
2006-08-17 22:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are still in school, this decision won't be up to you. Try to stop thinking about it and tell yourself everything will work out for the best.
It is hard to make new friends. Don't try to make them like you. Just be yourself and you will meet some great new people. Don't try too hard either.
Good luck to you.
2006-08-21 12:17:38 · answer #5 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋