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I did ask this girl out who told me that she was seeing someone. She claimed that I was too slow in asking her out. Anyways, it turns out that she broke up her boyfriend. She called me that it just occured. I have a feeling that there is room for me. I still have my doubts as to whether to go for it or not. Note: she thinks I have a girlfriend but I really don't I feel like she's want to date me now bcos she just broke the old relationship. I am in a limbo here. please advice me, well meaning yahoo folks. Thanks.

2006-08-17 14:52:52 · 26 answers · asked by hey101 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

26 answers

If you like her, go have fun. A date is not a committment. Sometimes timing is bad. Think of it this way, you may have just been granted the opportunity for something real.

2006-08-17 14:58:01 · answer #1 · answered by THP 3 · 1 0

When I'm not in a serious relationship, I can be kind of a scumbag. That being said. Totally go for it, get what you can out of it, but remember, it's probably not going to last anyway, so don't invest to much into it. I don't mean to seem too heartless, but in my experience, if you put to much effort into a relationship that starts that way, you're bound to have your heart broken. Just be a casanova and keep the upper hand. At this point she's coming back to you, so you can call the shots. As I said, get what you can, and if you're trying to hard, call it off. You're the man, dude.

2006-08-17 15:03:07 · answer #2 · answered by moquin747 2 · 0 0

if you meant to take her as your girlfriend, i should say definitely NO. relationships doesnt come in a packet that whenever you want you can purchase. you are just on the right track, but its herself who failed to understand you and blamed that you are too slow to ask her out. actually, you were in the right position:) staying back and observing her, and now you can understand what type of girl she is:) that is the benefit of not jumping into relationship derived only by sudden emotion. its not your fault that she broke up or left you so cheer up and dont feel guilty. if you really like her, just maintain a friendly relationship with her. and observe her response. but still i have doubt about her and i should suggest you not to involve in relationship or take her as a girlfriend. how do you know she wont do the same thing with you just like her previous boyfriend!
cheer up and continue with your moral, virtues and goals you would be successful. you dont have to worry or rush for a girlfriend. just hang in their and observe for the right girl! wish you good luck.

2006-08-17 15:03:27 · answer #3 · answered by Deepthoughts 2 · 0 0

I think you should give this girl credit for letting you know that she was seeing someone. That was honest of her. For whatever reason she broke up with her past boyfriend, she is now telling you that she is available to "date" her. Being that she was honest enough to tell you that she was in a relationship, I do not feel that she would call you on a re-bound.
She may be truly interested, what do you have to lose?

2006-08-17 15:09:48 · answer #4 · answered by Tweek 3 · 0 0

Hi

First of all - what do you have to lose if you try?
And the situation you described is the best example of what happens when people do not talk or not clear enough when when discussing their relationship.
Just go for it. You are single, she is single. The worst thing that can happen - it wont work. Which will still be ok, right?
Give it a try :) Otherwise you might end up regreting not doing it for the rest of your life.

2006-08-17 15:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by Julia 2 · 0 0

if you are in a situation that you see her often, just be there for her. But don't wait too long in asking her out. Really, she already told you once that you waited too long to ask her out. Sounds like she meant she would've said yes. Then she tells you that the relationship with the other guy is over. If she thinks you have a girlfriend... well obviously not all relationships last forever... I think you should go for it, but talk to her once then if that goes well, then ask her out.

2006-08-17 15:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by USAgirl 2 · 0 0

Of course theres room for you.

1. Tell her that u don't have a girlfrienddd!
2. and just wait a little while before asking her out, but just a little, because maybe she broke up with HIM to be with YOU.

2006-08-17 15:01:50 · answer #7 · answered by forever21_12 2 · 0 0

Sounds like a lucky break for you. No harm in going out, keep in mind she is rebounding, and the first guy after a relationship has a difficult job. You may be getting used,

2006-08-17 15:00:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Some people are relationship hoppers, especially young people...they'll go from this person to that person to that person, rather than be single for a while...

...if you are interested in this girl, then ask her out...if you end up not liking her so much, then don't go out with her again...nothing ventured, nothing gained...better to try and know, than to waste time in the future wondering what might have happened...

no regrets...go for it...

2006-08-17 15:00:38 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0 0

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