not married...young (18 years old) dating for 3 years
2006-08-17 14:10:11 · 29 answers · asked by sugar56 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he just went with a bunch of high school guy friends...it was like a big last guys night before everyone headed off to college...but 2 of the other guys with serious gfs didn't get lap dances
2006-08-17 14:33:05 · update #1
It depends on where they put what... and what he puts where!!
2006-08-17 14:19:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I was a dancer for many years and it comes pretty close. It depends on how you feel about it. If you are not comfortable with it and spoke to your bf about that and he goes ahead and gets one, that is showing complete disrespect to you and your feelings. I've told my now fiancee that if he ever goes to the clubs he is to most definitely tip the girls but is not allowed to get a dance.
2006-08-17 14:17:23 · answer #2 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every relationship has boundaries.... you should have already taked with your significant other and found out what these boundaries are.... if it falls inside those boundaries then its not cheating if it is outside the boundaries or you feel guilty then you need to fess up and apologise before he hears about it from someone else.
2006-08-17 14:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by once_an_angel87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In MY book it is. Anyone who is in a relationship, and feels the need to go to a strip club is not happy with who they are with. Also, if someone REALLY cares for their partner, then they won't feel the need to go to a strip club.
2006-08-17 14:25:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noway
2006-08-17 14:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by Berzerker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not really but just give him a reason not to go to the strip club. Strip for him!!!! It's always more fun because he can't touch the strippers but with you it's different...................
Good Luck Sweetie
2006-08-17 14:15:27 · answer #6 · answered by japanesegeishagirl_chynadoll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lap dance can lead to sex if youre weak. no Its not cheating.
2006-08-17 14:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it kinda depends i guess, if you got one without asking for it, then i wouldnt consider that cheating, but if you went to the strip club and purposely did something to get one, then maybe thats a little dodgey.
2006-08-17 14:15:12 · answer #8 · answered by BT!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt like it if i had a bf who did, and if he has been doing it without you knowing, that is kinda cheating, some ppl wont consider it, but i would, you might as well sleep with another guy, besides, why would he need to go if he has you?
2006-08-17 14:19:17 · answer #9 · answered by Super_Midget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm it would make me really mad but what did you expect it's a strip club in the first place. its just something you or whoever needs to get over
2006-08-17 14:16:12 · answer #10 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-17 14:22:03 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋