2006-08-17 14:09:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey you want to go out sometime?
or wanna do something on ...
then " i really enjoyed myself we should do this again sometime, and see what he says.
or if your really want to be raw.
"hey you want to explore my body with your tongue?" jk
2006-08-17 14:12:57 · answer #1 · answered by Orselo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may sound like a fool to some people, but others will take it the way its meant, just be yourself, and be blunt. Its the best way to do anything. If you listen to what someone else tells you to say, your not really being yourself, and in which case its not really you the other person is going out with anymore...
2006-08-17 14:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, start off by talking to him. Whatever you are talking about, let it lead to an idea of something to do. Food? ask him if he wants to go grab dinner. Movies? ask him if he's seen a certain one yet.
Just find a way to do something you guys both like, and ask him in a friendly manner. If you are casual about it, he can take it as a friendly thing or as a date thing, and then it can go from there.
2006-08-17 14:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by kari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him if he would like to do something some time. It really isn't as hard as we make it out in our heads. The more straight forward you are, as well as being confident, the better you come across. Take my word for it, what won't kill you will only make you stronger. GO FOR IT!
2006-08-17 14:16:20 · answer #4 · answered by str8tequila80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like your into it. Then ask him to meet you somewhere to get you a drink. But make sure
that you know him pretty good a nd make sure that he kind of likes you, and you won't be a
fool.
2006-08-17 14:22:03 · answer #5 · answered by lyd m. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well be confident don't let your fear show. So gain some courage and make sure you have good communication with him and casually ask "Hey this [movie] looks really good, want to come see it with me? and then mabey we can hit dinner afterwards" Try to sound like you don't care whether he accepts or not.
2006-08-17 14:17:11 · answer #6 · answered by Like a dream 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say "Hi, (smiling) would you like to go out to dinner/movie/play/... with me on (night/day of your choice)." If he says yes, great, if he says no, well at least you know you tried.
We men have been doing this for years... it is not easy, you are putting yourself up for rejection but what choice to you have. If you want to ask the guy out, you have to puck up your courage and walked up to the guy and ask.. Please remember that the next time a guy with he heart in his hand asks you out.
2006-08-17 14:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Hey, Dude....where do you like to have lunch? Yeah? Me TOO! Hey, I'll met you there at 11:30 and I'll treat!" No pressure, just meeting for lunch for an hour or so to get to know one another.....there ya go, honey, good advice free of charge.
2006-08-17 14:14:57 · answer #8 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a friend tell him u like him, and tell him u guys should go out
2006-08-17 14:14:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude i had the same friggen problem. I just told myself if they like you, they like you. And if they don't, well, they don't. And if u'r rejected just move on, don't think just because u've been rejected it means ur the weirdest person in the world.
2006-08-17 14:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ASK just TELL;
Just pick me up at 8 on fri.
Why don't you ask me out right now.
What day you taking me out this week.
Confidence will always be sexy and impressive.
2006-08-17 14:18:09 · answer #11 · answered by brooklyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋