how do i be opan about everything with my gf?

Question

theres just some things i don't feel comfortable talking about with a female. how am i supose to be opan and honest and stuff with a girl?

its so hard i'm not hideing anything but theres things to make me be like quiet.

Answer 1

Just do it.

Answer 2

Hi,

Honesty and trust is the foundation of all beautiful relationships.

However, no one said that you have to tell your girlfriend EVERYTHING.

What is it that you do not feel comfy about sharing with your girlfriend? Why do you not feel comfortable about sharing? Unless she thinks it is very important that she knows and ask you about it. If not, you really have the right to decide whether or not to tell her.

One area you might want to tread carefully would be the area on your past girlfriends or even past sexual experiences. While she may ask you and you can tell her how many ex girlfriends you have, I personally feel it would be best to keep the extra details to yourself.

Most women can't handle too much details about the exes.. but your gf might be different ;) You would certainly know better than me! ;)

If you feel sharing about some emotions within yourself, then do not be shy. I am sure she wants to know so that she can understand you better.

Good luck!

Answer 3

hey you are going to have to lighten up and you have to communicate more in a relationship because we girl tends to get soft and we think some of the craziest things the most important thing is you don't have to change but if she needs want you to be open about your relationship you might want to because being quit can hurt a really nice relationship maybe your scared to say things and you get nervous.But just tell her if she a great girl she will understand.Long as you be honest about everything.Most girls love a quit guy.good luck!

Answer 4

Sharing your dreams with a girl is hard. And it should be. You really commit yourself to someone when you open up. It is really taking things to the next level, and you may feel threatened at first. You are giving her the ability to hurt you easily. You are also allowing her to know you better. Just do it when you and her are ready.

Answer 5

If you really wanted to be open with just be yourself.Start talking with her bout your plans in the relationships,things you wanted to do together,ask her what is her favorite stuff,her likes and don'ts and after a long time talking with her you should share your points of view.eventually you can even ask her bout her fantasy. don't hesitate to tell her what is on your mind and be comfortable everytime your with her and if your talking just look at her straight to the eyes.

Answer 6

Hey if she's absolutely the one.. then she's the one for a reason. Let her in. I'm sure she feels the same about you and doen't want to share certain things.... well how do you feel about her not sharing everything with you?

Answer 7

it took my bf like a year to completly open up to me but anything he says i try and help him with even if i can't or i just listen he likes that just try and say something see how she reacts she'll prob be understanding and wants to hear that kinda stuff it will make her feel important

Answer 8

try to be honest with thing that affect her life. For ex: how you feel about her, are you faithful, your future plan and how they involve her you know things like that.

Answer 9

If you don't feel comfortable telling her certain things then don't. Tell her when you feel comfortable.

Answer 10

You need to sit down with her and establish trust and your relationship will grow bigger

Answer 11

drop the be in your question and phrase it more like how can I be more open with my girlfriend about everything ? there a little help from the english department and your welcome