Like when u try to get a guy to tell you how there day went its "Fine or Ok" or like u know something is bothering them and they cant even tell u, like y are girls all mushy and guys like Whatever...
2006-08-17 14:02:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not all are...but a lot are like that. guys are just raised like that. they're supposed to be the man of steel, the ones that take the burden of the women. many of them just dont want you to worry about them, so they dont bother to tell you their troubles.
2006-08-17 14:11:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Most of the answer to this question is a product of the male dominance in "social clashes" that depends upon the history of humanity.
In the past, men were often trained as warriors. Showing or expressing feelings during battle (especially face to face) is a handicap. Men who would express their emotions were often the ones to die. Men who did not were often the ones to live long enough to have children.
Even with this, you are looking more toward the "mushy" emotions, but especially between couples. If you don't think that men show their emotions, watch one get "cut off" which driving. Road rage is a common emotion expressed.
2006-08-18 03:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by Richard 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It could one of 2 things. 1st men tend to be raised to deal with problems ourselves. It's not healthy in some respects, but it's the way many men are. 2nd many women believe that guys have all these secret thoughts and emotions..... Honestly most of us don't. Sure some guys like me have deep philosophical thoughts, but they rarely are about our day. (Mostly us brainy types just need something to thing about other than our day, or we'll go nuts from boredom.) Most guys work hard, and that's just the way life is. It's not good or bad it's just "Ok", and a the end of the work we really don't care what occur at work.
2006-08-17 14:46:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say it's because guys do not have a lot of estrogen, or it could be the way they were raised. And yes, I feel that it is unfair to put all us men in the same category. I'm in touch with my feelings and I'm not afraid to talk about them. It sounds to me like you may be attracting the same type of guys... I don't know about others, but when I get home from work the last thing I want to do is talk about it. I'd rather have some XOXOXO's
2006-08-17 14:13:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for not being a "lady", yet answering besides. dishonest adult men might want to finally end up lonely and remoted, in consistent worry that each and every man or woman they recognize, relations, acquaintances, became waiting to betray them. they could actually have an STD that led to a consistent itch which couldn't be scratched. bodily abusive adult men might want to be stricken with a crippling rigidity that made them cower even at little old females, terrified that at any second, they could be critically overwhelmed. Serial sex offenders might want to spend their lives ashamed and humiliated via the perception that their concepts were continually being broadcast to the international and that no you'll ever like or trust them. Plus that they had conflict through each and every of the previous punishments.
2016-11-05 01:28:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want emotion? Watch your guy while he's playing a video game or watching sports, you'll get your emotion! In terms of conversation though, most guys grown up learning from culture that women talk about feelings, and if you're a "real man" you don't. It's quite hard to start talking about that emotional stuff for most guys.
2006-08-17 14:11:26 · answer #6 · answered by Manning10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, I've tried hard to say stuff other than "FIne or Ok" but its hard. When you ask a girl they tell you everything that they did that day. Most guys have pride problems. To open up to someone seems girly.
2006-08-17 14:09:28 · answer #7 · answered by dukenrd 07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B/c thats the way we are trained as little boys on. As kids, moms tell us to get up and brush it off. In gym teachers tell us to man up and if you dare cry, you would be the laughing stock of the school. Now girls are told "you poor baby" when they fall and never do you "man up"! And if you cry, its socially exceptable shoot they wouldn't even blink an eye at you!
2006-08-17 14:29:30 · answer #8 · answered by sixfoot8bkr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we usually don't care about small petty things that we really have no control over. Plus we'd rather be watching TV, driving, or playing video games. As long as we're mentally stimulated we don't need to voice our emotions. We have better things to do...like...sleep and eat.
2006-08-17 14:08:55 · answer #9 · answered by zetser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most men have too big of an ego.. it takes a true man to show his emotions.i love men who show their emotions but not a man who would sit and actually cry over everything
2006-08-17 14:10:35 · answer #10 · answered by ice princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is common fact that most men do not show their emotions, but not all of us are that way. hint hint. but as a guy get closer to you he slowly shares with you everything. but if you criticizes him you lose his trust then he say nothing again. and it's hard to get that back.
2006-08-17 14:06:45 · answer #11 · answered by Orselo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋