im not waiting for marriage or anything, i just want it to be special and i think ive found the guy. should i tell him that im a virgin or should i just keep it to my self???
2006-08-17 13:55:32 · 14 answers · asked by wishopeace 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm also 19 and a virgin..and waiting for that special someone. I did find him and he knows i'm a virgin. Most guys i've dated can smell " virgin" on you..lol seriously..it was like a challenge..but i believe if you dont tell him he might get mad or happy that you have chosen him for your special gift. Good Luck!
2006-08-17 14:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by YEP THAT'S ME.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a turn off it's a challenge for the guy. The guy will have to try really hard and if he's right for you you will do it with him because you love him more. It also means that the guy knows you don't have STD's.
2006-08-17 14:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by 1970boss302mustang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The time to mention it will come up at some point if the two of you become closer. Can't imagine it will turn him off and, if it does, that's pretty much a deal-breaker anyway, right?
2006-08-17 14:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would tell him when an dif you two decide to get married
you have waited this long , so wait til you are married, if he is not the right one then you will have to tell mr right you are not a virgin
2006-08-17 16:29:33 · answer #4 · answered by trey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him. If it's important to you it should be important to him too. I heard that boys like that but they kind a think that's as a challenge.Also,Girl you should tell him because it hurts little bit and he may wonder why and what's going on.Good communication is always better.Especially for relationships.
2006-08-17 14:09:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, he might think it is special that he is the first one to do it with you
2006-08-17 15:08:21 · answer #6 · answered by nurf turf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him. if he assumes that you're not a virgin anymore, he might bang the daylights out of you. i'd imagine that would hurt like heck
2006-08-17 14:13:14 · answer #7 · answered by c3dr1c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go ahead and tell him. He will be able to tell if you do decide to go through with it. So just be honest...there is nothing wrong with it.
2006-08-17 14:24:33 · answer #8 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that awesome that your a virgin.. i am also a virgin also.. here my email address if you want to get to know me ... efrain78223@yahoo.com
2006-08-17 14:02:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah u should. He should feel proud that he got you. Instead u make him feel that u appreciate him a lot.
2006-08-17 14:02:07 · answer #10 · answered by mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋